I've been thinking about this.. what are the advantages to being nice?
Except for you will be remembered as a "Care bear".

When you're nice the only reward you earn is women now know they can walk on you OR they'll be too scared to hurt your feelings since you're a "nice" guy. I guess the truth is.. Assholes are the only people who get shit done..

I don't think anyone will truly ever understand women.. they all say they want " a nice sweet guy who will sweep them off their " blah blah blah.. but is any of that true?

Are women just too scared to give nice guys a chance because they'll hurt them, or is it because they think of every nice guy in the world as their "brother" or "best friend", and even if a nice guy gets the chance to end up "talking" to a girl, they will end up being left for some one else always.. only when women have been hurt to the point that they don't trust anyone then they want that "nice" guy.. but then the nice guys have been screwed over so many times by them they don't want them anymore.

I used to be one of those "nice" guys who tried to be romantic, sweet, nice, caring, blah blah blah.. every girl I met either
A: Stopped talking to me for no reason at all and I never heard from them again for reasons unknown
B: Left for some other dude they just met.

I stopped the "nice guy" bs a long time ago though..

So I ask this.. does anyone truly understand women.. does anyone know exactly what they want? I'm curious to see the responses to "Understanding Women". Hell, that could even make a good e-book, "Understanding Women".

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Mel Gibson does. Didn't u see him in the movie called "What Women Want"?

Some women like abuse, most need to be told what to do, very few are actual individuals, and most of the individuals are feminist ironcunts.

JUST KIDDING WOMEN.

I think whisker pretty much summed it up. I don't think even women know what they want. Personally, I think most of them just don't want to be tied down in a relationship until they're older. The "nice guys" tend to remind them of commitment or marriage. The a--holes are just someone they can use until they're ready to settle down. Then again, some women can't function unless they're in crisis mode 24/7. And some are just absolute attention wh*res.

They come in all sizes and shapes, all with varying brain wave patterns. If you figure one out you will have several hundred million to go.

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Man, I always get a headache trying to figure women out.

I say it just doesn't matter how you act, when its right its right and you don't even know what the hell your doing right, so I just nod and say "sure" a lot.

Two kernels of truth.

You can either love women or understand them. You can't do both.

You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women chasing money.

They DO want a nice guy, but they don't want a doormat. They are constantly testing for this and other things and it's a constant unconscious process that goes back to the dawn of man.

The typical nice guy puts her on a pedestal just for her looks and she knows this. She KNOWS that every thing she says isn't witty, funny, intelligent or whatever...but the nice guy will still kiss up to her and tell her what he thinks she wants to hear.

She cannot respect this guy. If you supplicate, you masturbate. You CAN be nice, but you still have to be a leader. When she tests to see what she can get away with, you have to make it clear that you have a line and if she crosses it, you're gone. There's plenty of other fish in the sea. This makes you a challenge and higher on the totem pole.

Being nice is not about buying her affection with gifts and dinners and telling her everything that's great about her (which is mostly in your own head)...she's heard it all a million times. There's a lot of nice guys saying the same thing.

So take her off the pedestal and don't be afraid to speak your mind instead of trying to say what you think she wants to hear.

They want sex and lots of it

Girls don't want pussy guys. All weak men (not physically but mentally) don't stand a chance when it comes to women against an alpha male. That is what women are looking for. I don't care about what you look like, girls dig guys that take charge. You will find pretty much every girl likes a guy that leads, not one that is always asking "what do you wanna do."

You don't have to be a prick, but don't be a fucking wussy. Don't agree with everything she says just for the sake of agreeing that is what wussys do. Have a fucking backbone, grow a nut sack and put two balls in there. Big balls.

The day you stop being a complete puss around girls is the day they start respecting you more and hence take a second glance.

The last three girlfriends I've had have all said the same thing. They liked me because I lead them in almost everything we did, sex included (and of course my smashing good looks helped, but thats another story). This isn't a control freak, this is someone who takes charge.

Moral: You don't have to be a jackass, just don't be a pussy. You don't have to treat her like shit (immature girls like that though), just don't aim to constantly please her. Like it was said above, girls are constantly testing you looking for inconsistencies. So if she does something and you back down, but normally you stand tall she will look down on you for it.

Ohh yah one more thing. Women thinking pattern begins emotionally, not rationally. So if you can speak to their emotions, you can win over any girl.

Girls will tell you different, but trust me it's so very true.

be cool, ignore here at all cause, be hard and when u disagree, let here know, just be real, if you're a natural faggot then u got no hope

beat her if disobey you

A gentleman is simply a patient wolf

maybe that's why the nice guy act doesn't work, women can see right through it.

women are highly intuitive, you might think you're pulling a nice guy act...but the smart ones can see who you really are.

fuck the nice guy act and try being a friend. i know lots of dudes hate being 'just a friend', but seriously a lot of relationships begin with friendship.

Women like guys that make them feel better about themselves when they're around.

That's why the alpha male is successful, she feels safe and confident that the situation is being handled because she's too insecure about herself to trust that she can handle life.

You gotta be the one that helps her feel beautiful without coming off directly horny, but subtle innuendo with humor can go a long way to accelerating interest. I emphasize SUBTLE.

A confident self introduction is better than any lame pick up line. Don't put her in control by being all interested and start interrogating her - she's too insecure for that. You have to strike the perfect balance of not so interested that she feels powerful by ignoring you, nor can you act SO uninterested that she feels like you're a waste of her time.

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