I've been thinking about this.. what are the advantages to being nice?
Except for you will be remembered as a "Care bear".

When you're nice the only reward you earn is women now know they can walk on you OR they'll be too scared to hurt your feelings since you're a "nice" guy. I guess the truth is.. Assholes are the only people who get shit done..

I don't think anyone will truly ever understand women.. they all say they want " a nice sweet guy who will sweep them off their " blah blah blah.. but is any of that true?

Are women just too scared to give nice guys a chance because they'll hurt them, or is it because they think of every nice guy in the world as their "brother" or "best friend", and even if a nice guy gets the chance to end up "talking" to a girl, they will end up being left for some one else always.. only when women have been hurt to the point that they don't trust anyone then they want that "nice" guy.. but then the nice guys have been screwed over so many times by them they don't want them anymore.

I used to be one of those "nice" guys who tried to be romantic, sweet, nice, caring, blah blah blah.. every girl I met either
A: Stopped talking to me for no reason at all and I never heard from them again for reasons unknown
B: Left for some other dude they just met.

I stopped the "nice guy" bs a long time ago though..

So I ask this.. does anyone truly understand women.. does anyone know exactly what they want? I'm curious to see the responses to "Understanding Women". Hell, that could even make a good e-book, "Understanding Women".

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Mel Gibson does. Didn't u see him in the movie called "What Women Want"?

Some women like abuse, most need to be told what to do, very few are actual individuals, and most of the individuals are feminist ironcunts.

JUST KIDDING WOMEN.

I think whisker pretty much summed it up. I don't think even women know what they want. Personally, I think most of them just don't want to be tied down in a relationship until they're older. The "nice guys" tend to remind them of commitment or marriage. The a--holes are just someone they can use until they're ready to settle down. Then again, some women can't function unless they're in crisis mode 24/7. And some are just absolute attention wh*res.

They come in all sizes and shapes, all with varying brain wave patterns. If you figure one out you will have several hundred million to go.

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It's still dog eat cat, and cat eat mouse, and mouse eat cheese, and cheese just smells

Man, I always get a headache trying to figure women out.

I say it just doesn't matter how you act, when its right its right and you don't even know what the hell your doing right, so I just nod and say "sure" a lot.

Two kernels of truth.

You can either love women or understand them. You can't do both.

You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women chasing money.

They DO want a nice guy, but they don't want a doormat. They are constantly testing for this and other things and it's a constant unconscious process that goes back to the dawn of man.

The typical nice guy puts her on a pedestal just for her looks and she knows this. She KNOWS that every thing she says isn't witty, funny, intelligent or whatever...but the nice guy will still kiss up to her and tell her what he thinks she wants to hear.

She cannot respect this guy. If you supplicate, you masturbate. You CAN be nice, but you still have to be a leader. When she tests to see what she can get away with, you have to make it clear that you have a line and if she crosses it, you're gone. There's plenty of other fish in the sea. This makes you a challenge and higher on the totem pole.

Being nice is not about buying her affection with gifts and dinners and telling her everything that's great about her (which is mostly in your own head)...she's heard it all a million times. There's a lot of nice guys saying the same thing.

So take her off the pedestal and don't be afraid to speak your mind instead of trying to say what you think she wants to hear.

They want sex and lots of it

Girls don't want pussy guys. All weak men (not physically but mentally) don't stand a chance when it comes to women against an alpha male. That is what women are looking for. I don't care about what you look like, girls dig guys that take charge. You will find pretty much every girl likes a guy that leads, not one that is always asking "what do you wanna do."

You don't have to be a prick, but don't be a fucking wussy. Don't agree with everything she says just for the sake of agreeing that is what wussys do. Have a fucking backbone, grow a nut sack and put two balls in there. Big balls.

The day you stop being a complete puss around girls is the day they start respecting you more and hence take a second glance.

The last three girlfriends I've had have all said the same thing. They liked me because I lead them in almost everything we did, sex included (and of course my smashing good looks helped, but thats another story). This isn't a control freak, this is someone who takes charge.

Moral: You don't have to be a jackass, just don't be a pussy. You don't have to treat her like shit (immature girls like that though), just don't aim to constantly please her. Like it was said above, girls are constantly testing you looking for inconsistencies. So if she does something and you back down, but normally you stand tall she will look down on you for it.

Ohh yah one more thing. Women thinking pattern begins emotionally, not rationally. So if you can speak to their emotions, you can win over any girl.

Girls will tell you different, but trust me it's so very true.

be cool, ignore here at all cause, be hard and when u disagree, let here know, just be real, if you're a natural faggot then u got no hope

beat her if disobey you

A gentleman is simply a patient wolf

maybe that's why the nice guy act doesn't work, women can see right through it.

women are highly intuitive, you might think you're pulling a nice guy act...but the smart ones can see who you really are.

fuck the nice guy act and try being a friend. i know lots of dudes hate being 'just a friend', but seriously a lot of relationships begin with friendship.

Women like guys that make them feel better about themselves when they're around.

That's why the alpha male is successful, she feels safe and confident that the situation is being handled because she's too insecure about herself to trust that she can handle life.

You gotta be the one that helps her feel beautiful without coming off directly horny, but subtle innuendo with humor can go a long way to accelerating interest. I emphasize SUBTLE.

A confident self introduction is better than any lame pick up line. Don't put her in control by being all interested and start interrogating her - she's too insecure for that. You have to strike the perfect balance of not so interested that she feels powerful by ignoring you, nor can you act SO uninterested that she feels like you're a waste of her time.

get belt beat her is don sex, i do it nah

I have actually "laid off" women, as it were, for the past couple of years, only hanging around with business associates, chicks in bars, good female friends and the occasional "fuck buddy".

My experiences with relationships have not been rewarding lately and this snippet from The Onion describes perfectly what has been going on!

"I'm A Fucked-Up-Chick Magnet

By Dean Wiegand
July 20, 2005 | Issue 41•29"


"Hey, I don't want to brag, but when you got it, you got it. And when it comes to picking up women with severe personality disorders, I've got it. Seems like whenever I'm in the same room with a sexy young nutcase looking for some hot dysfunctional action, we lock eyes and I gaze right into the twisted, abnormal recesses of her psyche, and then—bam! We make an instant, undeniable, and incredibly unhealthy connection. What can I say? When it comes to women, I'm a fucked-up-chick magnet.

I know what you're thinking: "Who is this guy to sound so full of himself?" I'm not being egotistical—it's just true. Hey, I know I'm not perfect. Who is? We've all got problems. I'm sure I've got some myself. But here's one problem I don't have: the ladies. When it comes to charming every borderline psycho in a skirt, I take second place to no man. I guess I just give off that "Hey there, pretty lady with the lifelong unresolved emotional issues" vibe. It can't be taught—you either got it or you don't. And I got it.

Everywhere I go, all kinds of psychiatrically disturbed women come running—women who never got over a traumatic childhood accident, or habitually cut themselves, or slept with their stepfathers, or abuse substances while locked in self-destructive cycles of internalized loathing and rage. They just can't keep their hands off me.

It's been this way my whole life. When I was 14, I got lucky with a classmate's mom. In high school, I dated every bipolar suicide risk in town. In college, I had at least a dozen girlfriends who couldn't decide whether they were mental patients or lesbians. It's just the way it is: Deranged dolls dig me.

I don't even have to try. Maybe it's chemistry, or pheromones, or these women can tell I'm afflicted with a complementary set of psychiatric disorders and their fucked-up-female intuition just can't resist. Whatever it is, I'm not complaining. All I have to do is show up at a bar, and before last call, every damaged woman in the place will make a beeline for yours truly, looking to get me entangled in a horrific web of codependency, manipulation, and mutual denial.

The sex is great, too. Believe me, all these highly unstable women have so many self-esteem issues, identity crises, and subconscious needs for approval from absent or emotionally abusive father figures, they'll do practically anything to try to please a man, no matter how self-destructive it is. Sweet!

Take this hot little nutjob who picked me up last weekend. Talk about crazy between the sheets! She cleaned my pipes six ways from Sunday before breaking down in tears out of nowhere at 4 a.m., screaming irrational threats, and trying to throw my stereo out the second-story window. Luckily, I was able to calm her down with a little TLC—time-release lithium capsules—and get her into a cab before she caused any serious property damage. But still, she can't stay away—she's been leaving, like, eight voicemail messages an hour on my cell phone. Hey, once they get a little taste of the old Deanster, they always come back for more... even after multiple restraining orders and injunctions.

All I can do is shrug and say, "Crazy women go crazy for me."

Lots of guys have asked for my secret, saying stuff like, "Wow, you sure can pick 'em," or "Dude, you need help." They can't understand how I manage to attract so many hot, wild, desperately pathological chicks. But I can't tell you my secret... It's just some kind of inexplicable magic.

Well, whatever it is, I'm enjoying every fucked-up minute of it."

Haha you just said one of my best techniques (yes I said technique, so what) for pickin up girls at the bar. I always tell them I hope we can be friends. This does a few things.

First it disarms the girl, she sees you as less of a threat.
Two, she starts to wonder. "What is he not into me or something?" Now the ball is in their court and they usually start to try and impress you.

I've been using this for a long time and it works 90% of the time. You'd be surprised at how quickly you jump out of that friends zone if you know what you're doing, sometimes even the same night.

Uh.......

what?

for me i went with the attitude go out and have a good time perhaps think about settling down with a good women in your 30's.... am 34 and am getting married in October! No regrets and some awesome memories! LMAO

ive done all the mind playing games, and acting cool and shit but unless your prepared to keep up the charade it soon gets boring and frustrating... be yourself - definately dont be a pussy, but dont be a dick about either!

Get an accent and use it - it works wonders!

women science is mystery, understanding them is a puzzle, however there are some facts:

women are more emotional than men. the guy usually see his girl as a toy more than any other thing but the girl see him as a her dream prince

most women involve the money factor and care about it; they got an eagle eye when trying evaluate someone or where he stand ...they could easily tell a rich a from a poor or a rich-trying-to-be

most women prefer a rough guy then a pussy backstreet boy

I common mistake is that guy could attract a girl sexually that's just Hollywood ...LOL we used to shave our chest tiny hair and some crazy things....... but lately it was proven that some guys have more Pheromones produced naturally by their bodies then hey others this odor do really attract women



well this was bit of my theory when I entered the university, I was just like the right type of boy, any girl wish to be next to , but I tried a million of ways in vein then I soon realized that is just the same guys always left behind, and the successful ones are those who are always open for any opportunity that comes along not those who seek and run after opportunities

from then on I decided not giving a damn about girls, I really started dismissing them like it's just another guy sitting next to me

then guess what? the flow come over

BHW check out this video, you will be surprised, "the reason women takes handbags":

My most recent foray into relationships is best characterised by Billy Joel's "Uptown Girl". She couldn't handle Downtown and went back to the gated community from which her dragon ass lurked in the first place!

"Uptown Girl"

Billy Joel.

"Uptown girl
Shes been living in her uptown world
I bet she never had a back street guy
I bet her mama never told her why

Im gonna try for an uptown girl

Shes been living in her white bread world
As long as anyone with hot blood can
And now shes looking for a downtown man
Thats what I am

And when she knows what
She wants from her time
And when she wakes up
And makes up her mind

Shell see Im not so tough

Just because

Im in love with an uptown girl
You know Ive seen her in her uptown world
Shes getting tired of her high class toys
And all her presents from her uptown boys
Shes got a choice

Uptown girl

You know I cant afford to buy her pearls
But maybe someday when my ship comes in
Shell understand what kind of guy Ive been
And then Ill win

And when shes walking
Shes looking so fine
And when shes talking
Shell say that shes mine

Shell say Im not so tough
Just because
Im in love
With and uptown girl

Shes been living in her white bread world
As long as anyone with hot blood can
And now shes looking for a downtown man
Thats what I am

Uptown girl

Shes my uptown girl
You know Im in love
With an uptown girl

My uptown girl

Dont you know Im in love
With an uptown girl
My uptown girl
Dont you know Im in love
With an uptown girl
My uptown girl"

that is true, but you cant always speak your mind how you want to. if you just go blurting shit out about everything you don't like about her she is going to label you a dick and your going to be out the door.

One website for you guys.......

http://paragonproject.com/