Your 21 and she's 29?

I think it's really strange that she has not put a stop to this guy.

Maybe she wants to see how you handle it?

I hate when women play these little "I'm going to test him" games
(they learn that crap from magazines like Cosmo)

I'd tell her she is the one who needs to tell this guy to take a hike.

LOL, I was rolling on the floor when I read the dog thing Very Creative!

hire him as a writer.... and honestly he doesnt sound so crazy he just is one superb poetic writter.... and would kick ass in the relationship/love/dating niche

now then just email him back with a job offer :P

I sent him the message that shylesson told me to send and it worked! He is no longer contacting her and he did not respond to my messaged. He should consider himself owned! Thanks shy! Oh and you would date her too johnnypro she is hot and she SQUIRTS! heh

Tell him his letters are not long enough you need them to be at least 2500 words or more... If he doesn't abide tell him your going to have to cut all ties with him.

Ask him if he is capable of writing 3 letters a day at 2500 words per letter... If he is tell him you want them in packs of 3 if they are not there, then it's over, no more contact.

Keep him busy, tell him you want to really get to know how he's feeling and this is the only way you could know.

Use the fact that you could get him banned from google gmail, myspace etc... or whatever he uses for terrorist acts. But if he writes 3 - 2500 word letters each day to you then you won't go to that extent.

sell those articles or write a book. you only need 75k - 100k words for an entire book.... You can call it .... "Letters from a Phycho" or "Letters from a crazy dude on myspace"... keep him writing .... If he writes you 3 a day in 13 days you will have the entire book complete... Sell it for 24.99 on Amazon... if you don't have a publisher make an ebook and publish it on Kindle in Amazon... With a wicked title your going to sell millions.

Then Move and change you names, you will have enough money to live in Mexico for a long long time.

Good Luck,
Shit I wish I had a stalker sometimes, I would totally abuse him.

Originally Posted by kittykat

Tell him his letters are not long enough you need them to be at least 2500 words or more... If he doesn't abide tell him your going to have to cut all ties with him.

Ask him if he is capable of writing 3 letters a day at 2500 words per letter... If he is tell him you want them in packs of 3 if they are not there, then it's over, no more contact.

Keep him busy, tell him you want to really get to know how he's feeling and this is the only way you could know.

Use the fact that you could get him banned from google gmail, myspace etc... or whatever he uses for terrorist acts. But if he writes 3 - 2500 word letters each day to you then you won't go to that extent.

sell those articles or write a book. you only need 75k - 100k words for an entire book.... You can call it .... "Letters from a Phycho" or "Letters from a crazy dude on myspace"... keep him writing .... If he writes you 3 a day in 13 days you will have the entire book complete... Sell it for 24.99 on Amazon... if you don't have a publisher make an ebook and publish it on Kindle in Amazon... With a wicked title your going to sell millions.

Then Move and change you names, you will have enough money to live in Mexico for a long long time.

Good Luck,
Shit I wish I had a stalker sometimes, I would totally abuse him.

You all have given me good laughs. Wanna hear more of the stuff he has said? He has even sent her lyrics that he said he wrote because she was an "inspiration" to him. I love the book idea. We should start a sticky here and let everyone post their "crazy people letters."

I bet we would have enough content, judging by this nut, to make an encyclopedia of sorts out of it. Then, we can all split the royalties, that is, everyone who contributed to the thread, of course.

I can show you guys more. It actually makes me feel good and laugh about this whole thing when you guys tear him apart like you have been.

Here is a short one he wrote 2 days ago, he must be gay like some of you have said:

Email title: This is......

Email: the beginning of the best years of my life. I dreamed it, and it's manifesting. You were always there weren't you. I'm in an unusual mind state as I write this. I've never felt so happy about something that I cry. I can't stop it. I know it sounds sissy, but I have had uncontrollable tears of joy since i got home. Is this what Heaven is? Is it going to burn my eyes, or flood them? I LOVE YOU!!!!!!

Here are some lyrics, do what you will with them I am pretty, no certain, they havent been published. I didnt even read it all. Seriously it is too much to read he was sending her at least 15 messages a day like this. No bullshit.

lol:

.... along with the songs I send to you, as you had mentioned that you have a hard time tuning into JUST the words. I absolutely love this song, like maybe I wrote it in my sleep! This one is too special.
On this summer day
Then you might as well
Take the sun away
All the birds that flew
In the summer sky
When our love was new
And our hearts were high
And the day was young
And the night was long
And the moon stood still
For the night bird's song

If you go away

But if you stay
I'll make you a day
Like no day has been
Or will be again
We'll sail the sun
We'll ride on the rain
And talk to the trees
And worship the wind

Then if you go
I'll understand
Leave me just enough love
To fill up my hand

If you go away
As I know you will
You must tell the world
To stop turning, turning
'til you return again
If you ever do
For what good is love
Without loving you?
Can I tell you now
As you turn to go
I'll be dying slowly
'til the next hello

But if you stay
I'll make you a night
Like no night has been
Or will be again
I'll sail on your smile
I'll glide on your touch
I'll talk to your eyes
That I love so much

But if you go
I won't cry
Though the good is gone
From the word goodbye

If you go away
As I know you must
There'll be nothing left
In this world to trust
Just an empty room
Full of empty space
Like the empty look
I see on your face
And I'd have been the shadow
Of your shadow
If it might have kept me
By your side

I dont mean to double post or triple post but this is what he messaged her just after the conversation I had with him on the phone when I made him write down his little "directions."

lolagain:

fucking douche bag! If he put forth more effort into realizing what he has, in a woman, rather than getting jealous and being drunk, he might have a little respect from me. Only the shallow judge some bodies worth based solely upon their gross annual income. Watch out for those jealous ones. People that are so insecure, usually are just guilty of perpetrating the same things that they worry about. You do whatever you want. I am very disappointed in the caliper of "man", you reduced yourself to being with. i love you, but you could do so much better. He should embrace what he has, rather than be a dick, and make you upset. I'm sorry but I tried to be cool, I hope you know that. I'm me, thats all there is to it. A loser who was always a loser and a wannabe rhymer, I didn't mean to cause a scene. I learned a lesson though, babies are not to be dated. What a fucking asshole! How jealous can you be over someone who is HUNDREDS of miles away!? I must speak WAY better than him, and he got scared. I apologize.


Okay so umm, yea... I actually read this one and I must say he is homo. Definite faggish behavior has been displayed in this one here. The message, that is. LOL @_@

My friend was once in the same situation.. He changed her number since they were both in agreement to the guys insanity..


If I was in the situation.. I would tell him how you feel about the girl "you don't embrace" and if he had any respect for her, then he would leave her alone..

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

I dont mean to double post or triple post but this is what he messaged her just after the conversation I had with him on the phone when I made him write down his little "directions."

lolagain:

fucking douche bag! If he put forth more effort into realizing what he has, in a woman, rather than getting jealous and being drunk, he might have a little respect from me. Only the shallow judge some bodies worth based solely upon their gross annual income. Watch out for those jealous ones. People that are so insecure, usually are just guilty of perpetrating the same things that they worry about. You do whatever you want. I am very disappointed in the caliper of "man", you reduced yourself to being with. i love you, but you could do so much better. He should embrace what he has, rather than be a dick, and make you upset. I'm sorry but I tried to be cool, I hope you know that. I'm me, thats all there is to it. A loser who was always a loser and a wannabe rhymer, I didn't mean to cause a scene. I learned a lesson though, babies are not to be dated. What a fucking asshole! How jealous can you be over someone who is HUNDREDS of miles away!? I must speak WAY better than him, and he got scared. I apologize.


Okay so umm, yea... I actually read this one and I must say he is homo. Definite faggish behavior has been displayed in this one here. The message, that is. LOL @_@

lol what type of writer can't distinguish between caliber and caliper. seriously, what are you a brake part or something?

this guy is definitely a self-loathing, closet homosexual. his words scream "i love penis but i can't tell or mommy will kick me out of the basement." good luck.

fatjack'sblackhat, can you post some of his personal info here (email address)

I feel as if I'm missing out on the fun and would like to join in

I've followed this whole thread and I gotta tell you, you got a big problem. This guy could go postal at any time. Talking/corresponding with him at this point is not smart and isn't going to solve anything. He's enjoying it and playing with you. DO NOT have your GF try to put an end to this. This problem is now WAY out of her league. First thing you need to do is change or block all your #'s and e-mails. Second, I would consult with law enforcement and even make something up if I had to (so they take you seriously) like he's threatening violence. That should be enough, combined with his text/emails to get a restraining order. Even call his family and let them know what's going on. If they care about him they'll step in and maybe get him some help. Don't underestimate this psycho. He's dangerous. He also sounds like the type that if you just fucked him up it wouldn't do much good or slow him down. The sick F**K would probably just enjoy the pain and look at himself as some kind of martyr. Unless your willing to stick him in an F'ing hole in the ground out in the woods somewhere then you need help on this one. And yes...I've had some experience with this sort of douche bag. Let me just say...deranged stalkers are not cool. There's no easy way to solve this one.

Good Luck,
gun-shy

PS: I know that it's easy to laugh at this shit but take this jerk-off seriously. He ain't wound real tight. The good news is he'll probably end up just killing himself.

ohh common.. he's not in love with your gf... he's in love with you.... lol...

do you actually know this guy? have you seen this wacko? if not, are you sure it's not your girl whose writing you all this? just to get your reaction? you know how girls are...

This is retarded. You can talk or type until your blue in the face but he wont stop. He is clearly not of sound mind or judgement. To be honest, I'm not sure why your girlfriend hasnt put an end to this.

OKay so do you guys want his email address or myspace? I can get it just pm me if you wanna mess with him rofl

It's an old strategy. Is a girlie thing. He is trying to initiate a fight between you and your girlfriend to show her you're inmature. If you kick the hell out of him, you'll lose in your girlfriend eyes. If you stay calm, also you lose. Talk to your girlfriend about your feelings and make her clear the situation. You must never respond directly to him, stay quiet and he will make something stupid.

Originally Posted by kittykat

Shit I wish I had a stalker sometimes, I would totally abuse him.

LOL... Can we start a Group Buy of JrVips to stalk you, some like to be abuse

I wouldn't give him any importance. You might say, "I'd bother to read your far too long treatise, but really I don't have a lot of patience for pages of psuedo-intellectual BS. Let me tell you two things. One, drop the armchair psychology. And two- leave my girlfriend alone, she doesn't like you, take a hint."

If need be, have your girlfriend inform him that next call is a call to the police dpt. for stalking.

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

He messaged me this about my girlfriend. Keep in mind he has messaged her 17 times yesterday alone. I should probably do nothing as she hasnt responded to any of his crazyness. Here is what he wrote me. All of his "big" words do not intimidate me as they are used out of context and do not follow correct nuances. So humor me with ideas, what should I say to this loser? Im telling you don't let his talk fool you this guy is absolutley nuts:

As a man, I can completely identify with the reaction you made, concerning myself. It is of course, a textbook case of "territorial pissings", being protective of the things you care about, or "Who the fuck is this mother fucker texting/calling my girl?" I get that. I understand completely. I hold no grudges towards you, as that is hardly my style. Alcohol can be fairly persuasive, especially in matters of the heart. What I think that you need to know, is that Kathy and I were never an "item". On the contrary, we were best friends at one point. We have never been physically involved with one another. We did talk a lot! Her and my, long lost relationship, was predicated upon our passion for language and life. We always talked in a way, that would lead people to believe we were in love. And, I do love her, but you have nothing to worry about. She loves you. I know she does. Let me digress though........, I love Kathy in a way that poses no threat to you. For so long, as a writer, I used her as my muse of inspiration. See, when we met, we shared a lot of similarities. I happened to be very outspoken, mostly for shock value, while she was less outspoken, but passionate when she spoke. I latched on to that quality, because, as an artist/writer, it was detrimental to grasp that power/ability to make people hang on your every word. It's pretty fucking admirable. So we would talk for hours on end, and I would learn from her, the secret to passionate speak. She really is something. I applaud you for being able to land such a beautiful treasure. Cherish every breath she makes. She is special. Just know, that I pose no threat. I may say things to her, sweet things, but I only say them for the truth behind them. That's the way it has always been, and it will likely continue. I lost her for ten years, but ten years doesn't mean shit to a couple of weird ones like us. But, dude....... for real, I live hundreds of miles away. What's the threat? Also, she LOVES you! First thing she had to say was about you. I don't "wreck homes". I'm not a "lonely loser". My gross annual income, no matter the size, makes no matter with the person I am. I'm real as it gets. I will tell you the truth, no matter what. The truth is this: I am happy for the both of you. I want nothing less than ecstatic energy for Kathy. I will always shower her with compliments, as she is the one who made me into the person I became. We are the same. I am genuinely appreciative at your attempt to clear the air with me. That is honorable, and to be honest... I didn't expect it. But....anyways, you have no reason to be jealous, insecure, overbearing, or angry with her or myself. Our involvement is innocent. Sometimes that type of thing happens in life. You are still young, grasshopper, with much to learn. She has the intellect, knowledge, and life experience, enough to where, you can trust her when she says its okay. And it is. Get back to me.

I may be the only one to say this, as I havn't read through what everyone else has said, and yea it sounds like he is a little crazy/obsessed But If he is claiming to talk to her on the phone..that would be a red flag for me. One thing I learned with woman is that they are good fucking manipulators and liars. 95% percent of the time they don't tell the truth when it comes to things like relationships. I doubt this guy is writing her without any response from her other wise he would not contact her and be so passionate. Yea I don't know you or your girlfriend but im just saying that when ever something like this happens your attention should be on how she is reacting. Don't worry about him. Worry about her and find out why they started contact in the first place, but don't ask her. And there is always a 3rd side of the story. Take into consideration that she Is lying and protect yourself, a VERY good idea. Even if he does live very far away. Also take into consideration that this woman has 8 years of player status on your ass and if she wanted to truly play you she could. Another red flag would be him acting so nice towards you obviously he is trying to get your girl. Take some brass knuckles to his teeth so next time he smiles the girls run hehe.

Lodge a complaint to authorities for unsolicited messages.
If possible find out if you can take a legal action against him for invading into your private life and causing nuisance.

I'm sure this will get me no friends here but:
I believe the whole thing is a hoax perpetrated by fatjack'sblackhat. A cry for attention. But that's just me and I really shouldn't have read this far.

If not you really shouldn't be asking for life advice from dudes you don't know on the net. They may just be your next stalker...

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

Here is a short one he wrote 2 days ago, he must be gay like some of you have said:

Email title: This is......

Email: the beginning of the best years of my life. I dreamed it, and it's manifesting. You were always there weren't you. I'm in an unusual mind state as I write this. I've never felt so happy about something that I cry. I can't stop it. I know it sounds sissy, but I have had uncontrollable tears of joy since i got home. Is this what Heaven is? Is it going to burn my eyes, or flood them? I LOVE YOU!!!!!!

Since he got home?

Got home from where i wonder

Following her, meeting her, who knows

Seems odd he is that happy after getting home from somewhere

ummm.......... i read the whole thing.. it was super hard to do that... but... i still did..

anyways... i have some bad news for u... sadly... the exact same thing happened in my life... everything was ok in my life with my girl n then this "kind" of animal came into the picture.. he also used all the big words like this one.. wrote poems on my girl n stuff like this..


i simply ignored him n told my gf to do the same.. this moron kept sending the shit anyways.. for "3" whole months... n well we did finally break up after a lot of bull shit... n then later i found out that that guy had been telling shit bout me to my ex n trying to prove she was stupid talking to me... i make quite a fortune online n he is a spoilt kid with a rich father... though i make more than his father too now!

what i want to say.. dont take it too lightly as i did... just go to the police or something n make this guy stop... trust me all girls are a bit stupid.... n they will think that that guy is writing poems for them n u are doing nothing!

so better buck up... u are in for trouble... for sure!

Dude is living in some fantasy novel. However, who cares?

If your girl wants to be with a modern day poet and sing in a daisy field, and go chase butterflies, then let her.

Let's get real, this dude is out of his fucking mind.

I just have one question. If they went to high school togather, how come he started contacting her now? I also had a similar experience, but in my case girl played a double role, and it was very hard to find that out.
So, before you do any steps make sure that you have eliminated all possibilities that an actual problem is coming from your vicinity.

Originally Posted by unselfishfan

I agree with nirvana.
You, and your girl, should not respond at all.
Keep watch. Sociopaths aren't crazy like you might think.
They are crazy, intelligent, know exactly what they're doing, and they
WILL mess you up.

For fun. They don't care-even when they get caught.
(I remember Ted Bundy. Look him up, if you don't remember.)


Those big words are there to advertise intelligence, and precision.
He is very specific in his use of meaning. Truly dangerous, and definitely not a fool. He is baiting you. Please don't fall for it.

Ditto...ditto....ditto....do not fall into this trap....do not answer. Do you actually think it would be the end by answering....no....it will only be the beginning.....he's spooky!~

Why would he make this up to get attention. That seems like a lot of work for nothing.

Originally Posted by jagrmeister721

Why would he make this up to get attention. That seems like a lot of work for nothing.

Eh this is going the same way as the kid in Michigan who cut the other kids head off for $400.

Be careful OP

Originally Posted by berrycorp

ummm.......... i read the whole thing.. it was super hard to do that... but... i still did..

anyways... i have some bad news for u... sadly... the exact same thing happened in my life... everything was ok in my life with my girl n then this "kind" of animal came into the picture.. he also used all the big words like this one.. wrote poems on my girl n stuff like this..


i simply ignored him n told my gf to do the same.. this moron kept sending the shit anyways.. for "3" whole months... n well we did finally break up after a lot of bull shit... n then later i found out that that guy had been telling shit bout me to my ex n trying to prove she was stupid talking to me... i make quite a fortune online n he is a spoilt kid with a rich father... though i make more than his father too now!

what i want to say.. dont take it too lightly as i did... just go to the police or something n make this guy stop... trust me all girls are a bit stupid.... n they will think that that guy is writing poems for them n u are doing nothing!

so better buck up... u are in for trouble... for sure!

And you know, I had these exact same thoughts. It sounds as if you are predicting my future and I can do nothing about it. I have tried to tell her but you know what she said, and I quote... "Well, Im not married."

Pretty much broke my heart but I love her so much that I cant end it. Im a fool and I know it

What a creepy fuck!

I suggest pulling tough on this guy and telling him to steer clear or you're gonna stuff his big words down his throat!

Clearly your GF isn't gonna tell him to lay off and the longer this goes on, the more you are gonna look like the bad guy when you lay down the law.

Words are powerful, more powerful than physical action sometimes. Trust me, I talked my ex back into a relationship from the other side of the planet while she was with some douchebag (that said I did have to travel the globe to be with her and then it all went to shit because of the same douchebag lol)

But seriously, fuck him off, and (I really hate to say this) don't trust your GF, esp if she is not willing to tell this clown to fuck off and is making comments like you just mentioned.

All the best, fingers crossed for you and all that...

lol what a wierdo, he called you grasshopper lol. i suggest you tell him to stfu asap

of course hes nuts, hes still trying to get with her after 10 years? yah deff a nut job. I would say obsessed. See you really need to see where she stand on this, does she still have feelings for him? if she does he is a very smooth talker and manipulative, enough as to where he could break her. luckily he lives 100 miles away. Dont get yourself wrapped up in going after him, you need to go after her. let her know how u feel about her and let her know what a psycho this dude is. keep her close because this guy will deff not let up. I have seen it before from experience. you threatening him just feeds him to push it more. get her to cut communication with him and be done with him because it isnt going to be him who is done with you

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

And you know, I had these exact same thoughts. It sounds as if you are predicting my future and I can do nothing about it. I have tried to tell her but you know what she said, and I quote... "Well, Im not married."

Pretty much broke my heart but I love her so much that I cant end it. Im a fool and I know it

ahh man im sorry to say but it might be just a little bit too late now. Shes falling for that smooth talking psycho babble. its all a game to them. sorry bud but if you dont either take my advice above or move on your in for a very rocky journy.

I already replied once before and it is probably your best option..


However now it seems like your gf just doesn't care.. Maybe their both insane or it's just spreading out onto her.. It's hard to break old love and I know it's hard going through daily life knowing your girl is being seduced.. Your not going to find the answer on the forums.. You need to lay down the law and find out what she is really thinking.

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

And you know, I had these exact same thoughts. It sounds as if you are predicting my future and I can do nothing about it. I have tried to tell her but you know what she said, and I quote... "Well, Im not married."

Pretty much broke my heart but I love her so much that I cant end it. Im a fool and I know it

Those 4 words mean more then you think. I would dump her ass just for saying that. She is talking to him. I couldnt agree more with Keedev.

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

And you know, I had these exact same thoughts. It sounds as if you are predicting my future and I can do nothing about it. I have tried to tell her but you know what she said, and I quote... "Well, Im not married."

Pretty much broke my heart but I love her so much that I cant end it. Im a fool and I know it

i was quite heart broken for about 3 months... my life was screwed up.. i left work.. n i dont know what i was doing for atleast 2 months... but know what m kinda ok now...

just one word of advice... "if possible" convince ur gf to sign a complaint n file it in the police station... then get the police to give this guy a warning n if he still tries to contact her go to the police again!

know what it works... it worked for a friend of mine... u just need to wait for a situation when ur gf is super angry on that guy...

u need to plan everything in advance... beating him up or ignoring him wont solve the issue...

just plan in a cunning manner... n make ur gf do everything!! that ways u get rid of the guy + u are not responsible..!!

i made a mistake n lost my gf... hope u dont have to go through that too!

just wait for the time when ur gf is irritated with that guy... i can bet there would be many! i have gone through all that!

Id sell his cellphone number to a million gay porn sites

If I were you I'll have to put him in his place.Because probaly in his mind he think he got you scared.

This guy sounds dangerous. Here are my suggestions:

(1) Explain to your girlfriend how you feel about these messages
(2) Keep all the messages (will explain in a min)
(3) Copy all your (her?) contacts on that cell phone (sim card + phone)
(4) Make a formal complaint to your local cop shop (maybe a barring order?)
(5) Make a formal complaint to whoever is your cell service provider and request a new phone number

Once you do that, buy a new sim card, put the old contacts onto that new sim card.
Next "mark" that guys number on the new sim card (so you know to ignore it etc)

Yes, it is a lot of work and which you should not have to experince but try to think of it as :

(1) saving your relationship with your girlfriend
(2) peace of mind (mental)
(3) Both of you will be safer

After you have done all that make a point of watching your back / windows for a day or two (yes sounds like overkill but there are some people who go just too far). After that I guess you can relax.

Before I forget, why to keep the message is because it is the only "proof" you have to show the police / cops if required (more than likly required to secure the barring order in the first place.)


Why do I suggest doing it right and 100% is because I actually know a girl who has expereinced this (it was actaully far more serious, blackmail and threats) who suffered for two months. She came to me for help (i know her 12 years) and it was sorted. However it took a few weeks for her to get her confidence (security?) back.

Start messaging him lyrics from some death metal rock band every time he pulls his whiny Renaissance crap. Either that or just ignore him entirely. Hes playing the "nice sensitive guy" game hoping you have a fight with the GF and he can be sympathetic. Personally id just ignore him, but its kinda pointless to start a pissing contest with a dickless wonder.

One thing I have to say first is that this guy claims to be a writer but man I can't stand reading that shit. Horrible use of commas and he just throws in words left and right to try to sound smarter.

On another note dude is crazy and has a crush on your girlfriend, best thing you can do is maybe crack a joke at his expense to her now and then. He is no threat you should know this because she is with you. Acknowledging this douche and making it into a big deal will just create unnecessary friction and make you appear insecure. This wont help at all, just let it go homie.

Update: She fell in love with that guy and her and I split. He lives all the way across the country from us. It was a bunch of bs

instead of submitting his poetic writing to AC, start a personal blog for him about how he's obsessed with someone's girl.....i always think ppl are always into all this reality/personal shit, people are nosy

Originally Posted by fatjack'sblackhat

Update: She fell in love with that guy and her and I split. He lives all the way across the country from us. It was a bunch of bs

wtf? so what? She's gonna move there or he's gonna move here? If the latter, do something to him

I say he's just a writer, my brother is, they are over sensetivity is swinging them of the hook. Just Make your Pot, Buy an Island!