I read a book by a sex expert that most of the women DO NOT like big penis, because big penis hurt them.

Originally Posted by enovator

I read a book by a sex expert that most of the women DO NOT like big penis, because big penis hurt them.

I think it depends on the woman, whether she likes freaking huge cocks or average cocks. Btw the whole thing depends on the technique, if the guy's technique is bad, than it doesn't really matter how big his cock is.

Welp..
Last Day:

That engaged girl pretty much ditched me and was only using me to hang out with someone. The girl that said I was ugly the day before apparently just hated the engaged girl and we hung out for a while, and the entire fucking day all she did was text and get numbers from different dudes.. and she was trying to make me her bitch by making me get stuff for her and that wasn't working out so I left.

I walked around with a few friends towards the end of fair when they got there, but the only girl I met was some home schooled girl running one of the fair booths. She seems more nice than she does easy but I'll get to know her, since she's technically the only lead I got the entire fair.

I guess now all I got is Myspace or something like that. lol well that's my 7 day reality show.

It's because you work at KFC and you smell like burnt chicken grease.

I do shower.. so no, I don't smell like KFC.

Don't give up mate, it maybe a dry season now, but it can change soon.

I just watched Meeting girls in bars and Clubs by DavidDeAnegelo. Its certainly on the ball when it comes to meeting chicks. I totally recommend it, or before watching that get his series called The inner Game videos then eventuate on his other video series

Become a Alpha Male that's the only way

Great Advice so far, I know it has really helped me. I am far from being a playa lol.

Don't forget your hand and porn. Better get used to it because you have way too many problems for us to solve here.

Originally Posted by coreygeer

I guess now all I got is Myspace or something like that. lol well that's my 7 day reality show.

I dont see why Corey has so many problems? I mean he is still young at 20 years old. I mean I am sure for some people getting women while being a teen or early 20s is easy but I am sure some men dont get much women till later on ( a small amount of course). I think good advice is to go to new places or maybe travel a little so you can meet new people and then you might easily find a women for yourself. It just sounds like where you are or where you hang out isn't the best location to look around lol.

Originally Posted by Diabolik

Don't forget your hand and porn. Better get used to it because you have way too many problems for us to solve here.

But I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I was confident, I wasn't dressed like a bum, I was having a good time, making everyone laugh and I was just myself I wasn't trying to be pretend to be someone else, I wasn't being the "nice" guy.

In High School we were always bankrupt and poor so I had no money for brand designer clothes and I know a good number of people from high school who won't talk to me because of it, but times have changed and other than that.. I honestly have no idea what went wrong or what I did wrong.

if you listen to a woman you will get lost with womens, they are fucking complicated (no offense but its a fact) so when they give an advice they will give it mixed with their life experience and their currently emotional state (womens change their emotional state every 3 days) so please dont listen to womens

also there is something else that hasnt been said on this thread, ENERGY

womens get atracted by your energy, if you wonder how is it posible that some guys take the girl to bed in 20 minutes and some guys doesnt get laid in months ts because of the energy, you dont need to be rich, handsome, well dressed, tall, sensitive or any crap you may think, you just need that one thing

its not posible that a guy comes saying that he is confident when he is really not and he just haves an idea he heard from another guy

you need to vibrate that, and yes, womens can smell shit a mile away, maybe the claim the dont understand the guys or maybe they suffer for them, but if they dont like what you are on the first second they wouldnt change their mind in their whole life, and on the other hand if they like you on the first second they wouldnt change their mind in their whole life thats a fact because its what you are on the inside what atracts the women

so if anyone wants to change their luck with womens they need to change what they are.... think about it for a second the guys that have "luck" with womens always have luck... its very funny but there are no midle numbers, you sleep with dozens of girls or you just sleep with less than 20 in your whole life (and 20 its a big number for some guys.. sometimes out of their reach)

and think about it for a second, if you can take 10 girls to bed surely you can take 50 and if you can take 50 to bed you can set your own limit

so, you can read experiences, try tricks and do a lot of things but for some time focus and whats not solved inside of you if you stil feel that your clothes are going to make a diference with women then you are not going the right way...and think about it for a second, if you have that shit inside of you you will carry it everywere you go and guess what? womens have a "loosers radar" and its fucking tuned

I have conciously tested it and weared the most awfull shorts, shoes without socks and a $10 shirt and they dont give a fuck they gladly hang with you I am not saying that you should dress like this but you are the one that is atractive not what you wear

And if you are wondering how to get a woman to bed there is a fucking simple answer "make her feel wished". sounds simple but its not, if you really "make her" feel wished you will have her beging to have sex. like smity said "you are the prize" when you see an atractive woman and she shows some interest in you what hapens? you go fucking nuts and will do exaclty what she says just to have the chance to be with her cus u like her... well its the same on the other hand just change the pappers "make them play your game"

The confidence comes from the inside its not something that you learn its something that you live, that you are.

I forgot something if you are desperated for sex, sex wont happen lot of guys can confirm that I think, one thing is to be horny and another thing is to be "desperated"

Originally Posted by coreygeer

But I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I was confident, I wasn't dressed like a bum, I was having a good time, making everyone laugh and I was just myself I wasn't trying to be pretend to be someone else, I wasn't being the "nice" guy.

In High School we were always bankrupt and poor so I had no money for brand designer clothes and I know a good number of people from high school who won't talk to me because of it, but times have changed and other than that.. I honestly have no idea what went wrong or what I did wrong.

Number one, you are not "the man". You have zero confidence in getting girls. You can be dressed like a 5 dollar hooker and still get girls.

You have zero killer instinct and honestly girls just step all over you. You have to realize that girls do not care about looks, they care about alpha male status and you are not anywhere close according to your notes I have read.

It has nothing to do with clothes and has everything to do with how you act. Sure clothes and shit help, you can peacock and what not, but I'm sure you look and dress like everyone else.

You are normal, and if you are normal and dress and act normal when you do not have outstanding looks, you will get girls that are 150+ and that suck at life. That is even if you get those.


Number one, act like God's gift to the earth, do not be to cocky, but just know you are. To cocky is a turn off and never be an asshole.


Never ever be scared, and never care what a girl thinks of you, and also say the first fucking thing that comes to your mind with authority.

NEVER CARE.

The confidence will ooze off of you, and then you can be "nice" while being a cocky sob. Be cocky/funny/nice - always know you are the shit. Girls can absolutely sense this. It is an innate feeling to get girls and will become one if you practice correctly.

I also started watching David Deangelo's Inner game serious, everyone here should serious watch that shit, its really great

This is a thread I'd love to post in, too bad I didn't see it till now (don't hang out in the lounge often)

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I guess you could call me a PUA but I don't consider myself that, its just that I can get pretty much any lucky single (lately been having a thing for girls with bfs) woman I approach. Depends on the situation of course!

I'm a good looking guy (maybe too good looking) and I have all the fucking confidence in the world to go approach any woman; not because I'm good looking, simply because I really don't give a flying turd if I get rejected or not.

Most of the time, girls won't even notice that I'm flirting with them until they fall for me (which doesn't take very long). I first analyze the girl in the first couple of minutes I talk to and see what type of girl she is.

If she's a slut, I don't even have to say shit, she'll just be ready to fuck.

If she's a nice kind of girl, I'll bust her balls a little then simply talk to her with a little more ball busting and maybe ONE OR TWO compliments and that's about it.

If she's a spoiled brat (love those), I will bust her balls like fucking shit, specially if she tries to get cocky with me, boy oh boy do I love putting them where they belong with the rest of normal fucking humans. With these kind of girls you just have to make sure you SHOW THEM that you really don't give a fuck if her daddy owns a Fortune 500 company and she lives in beverly hills and has the latest Audi. Show her you don't really give a fuck and she'll be much easier to deal with.

I'd keep on going with the different types of girls and how to act but its 5:52AM, I'm dead tired and frankly, still a bit tipsy.

Anyways, I'm always the guy that my friends come and ask for advice when wanting to date a chick or simply pick one up if they can't do it by themselves so if you got any specific questions, don't hesitate to shoot me a PM and we'll chat.

TO CLOSE, I'll just say this: Be CONFIDENT, be YOURSELF.

PS: To the original poster, coreygeer: After checking your pics and your About Me, I'd say first of all, try to change the hair a bit bro, I remember I had that haircut till I was about 7. Also, try to look more confident, when I looked at your face in the pics, you looked like the typical guy who's too afraid to talk to the hot blonde cheerleader in high school (no offense at all) Try to have a more confident look in your face and not that shy boy kind of face.

Originally Posted by smitty5168

Here are some good things that have landed me over 300 women in my short lifetime.

Well really the first thing is be ridiculously good looking, but if you don't have that going for you these should help.

1. Don't be a needy bitch... man up.

2. Don't be a slob.

3. Be the center of attention but not in an obnoxious way.

4. Never break eye contact with a girl first.

5. For god sakes take control of the situation.

6. Act like you have a million different options even if you don't.

7. Don't have a mustache.

8. Don't laugh at your own jokes. If you laugh at your own jokes and she doesn't it shows you are a total toolbag and insecure because you were trying to fuel others laughter with your own.

9. I always like to approach girls and ask them what the cheesiest lines they've heard in their life are. Sounds stupid but it breaks the ice. Then after they tell me I always throw out a couple really corny ones that get em laughing. Usually they have a sexual overtone to them to show em I'm not afraid to let that cat out of the bag quickly.

10. Be consistent. Girls are constantly testing you to see if you are inconsistent.

11. Never be sorry. This sounds harsh, but don't apologize for being a man who lives his life the way he wants. Girls will respect you for not taking shit.

12. Along with 11, don't take shit. If a girl doesn't act right, let her know that doesn't fly with you. She will likely test you after that, but stand your ground. I'm telling you, she will appreciate you for it.

13. You are the prize, now start acting like it. Girls are the ones who should be fighting over you, not the other way around. Stop putting the girl up on this mantle like she is some goddess.

14. Depending on the type of girl, be immature in a mature way. All the things that were tits in 4th grade are tits again. I recently re-introduced the pen15 club at a bar last week and girls were eating it up. Its just a fun thing to break the ice. Once you get a girl laughing a feeling comfortable with you, your in.

15. Realize you will probably be rejected tons of times in your lifetime, but who gives a shit you'll probably never see that chick again in your life.

16. If a girl calls you, act like you are busy even if you are just sitting on your ass watching TV and eating potato chips (which you shouldn't be doing in the first place). Girls don't like boring guys, if you have the appearance of being busy thats a good thing. I always like to say, "Yah maybe we can hang out later on when I'm done with the stuff I'm working on." Haha, my GF has kinda caught on to that one and calls me out every once in a while.

17. Body language pretty much tells a girl if you have a shred of confidence or not. Work on your posture. Get the Alexander Method, it works wonders. A strong dominant posture says a ton about your confidence levels even if your inner self doesn't reflect it.

All in all... you don't have to have a ton of money or be good looking. Sure that stuff helps, but girls are looking for a real man that will lead them. One that has a plan and doesn't break that plan for anyone. Take control, lead her, and be the boss and she will love you.

I'm sure I missed some stuff but that'll give you a general guideline.



P.S. For gods sake stop eating foods that encourage production of estrogen in your body. I'm telling you that men are becoming more and more of complete wussys everyday and that is a big part of it. I'm not saying go take some HGH shots or something stupid, but foods can have a real affect on your success in that area.

Haha. Someone has been studying PUA stuff

Walk up to her and say, Hey sweet thang.. Hows bout I buy you a fish sandwich..

Remind her how much fun doggy style is.

Ask her if you can do it in the butt.

Grow your sideburns out a bit and get you some good hair gel/spray to spike that shit. Nothing too harsh that gives you helmet head, but just a good hold. Got Glued is good, so is Wet Line. But yeah do something with the hair bro.

you break the first I contact with a woman, and she is gone for ever.

Originally Posted by plouyd

Walk up to her and say, Hey sweet thang.. Hows bout I buy you a fish sandwich..

Remind her how much fun doggy style is.

Ask her if you can do it in the butt.

Why buy an e-book or listen to any other advice when this post hands down is the best girl pick up advice?

This one made me lol.

Originally Posted by coreygeer

Why buy an e-book or listen to any other advice when this post hands down is the best girl pick up advice?

This one made me lol.

Corey,

a few things...

1. Stop looking...you are a freakin' stalker in training with this approach.

Walk into a place and be subtle in scoping the place out. Be there because you want to be there for a purpose other than getting women. A club- to have a good time. A restaurant- to get something to eat...and anywhere, to have a good time. Don't go in with the sniper scope and wookie suit on looking to make a kill because you will get nailed first everytime.

As far as not caring...Don't care that you aren't with anyone at the moment, be happy with yourself and again, have another purpose. This will clearly present a confident feeling to the girls in the area from you, letting them know you aren't a threat to them.

As many of the other guys have told you, that makes you of interest because you didn't strip them with your x-ray vision. Don't show a lack of caring...the key is to make them have something of interest to you at the time. React to what you want to see more of from that person. If it is flirting and sexual movements, it will bring more from her.

If she changes the topic of your interest, back off and show less response to it. Don't cold shoulder her or you'll brush her off and it'll be a botched mission.

Stick with simple things...open with a sincere response. If she makes eye contact, you smile. If she smiles back, then walk over and talk to her. If she breaks contact, don't waste your time and then she doesn't exist unless she comes to you.

If a woman makes the effort to directly come up to you, that's when you sincerely answer her comment and keep her on point of what you want in your responses...Don't come out and tell her you want to screw her. Just keep it simple and evolve the responses according to your interest. This will keep her off center and very interested on a primal level, curious and turned on dueto the mystery of what you have to offer her in being a challenge.

Keep it simple, you are a man, for christ sake, act like it. Confidence is not ignoring women, it is being just fine with our without them...They don't want a momma's boy.

Hope that helps.

Originally Posted by coreygeer

Why buy an e-book or listen to any other advice when this post hands down is the best girl pick up advice?

This one made me lol.

Corey,

a few things...

1. Stop looking...you are a freakin' stalker in training with this approach.

Walk into a place and be subtle in scoping the place out. Be there because you want to be there for a purpose other than getting women. A club- to have a good time. A restaurant- to get something to eat...and anywhere, to have a good time. Don't go in with the sniper scope and wookie suit on looking to make a kill because you will get nailed first everytime.

As far as not caring...Don't care that you aren't with anyone at the moment, be happy with yourself and again, have another purpose. This will clearly present a confident feeling to the girls in the area from you, letting them know you aren't a threat to them.

As many of the other guys have told you, that makes you of interest because you didn't strip them with your x-ray vision. Don't show a lack of caring...the key is to make them have something of interest to you at the time. React to what you want to see more of from that person. If it is flirting and sexual movements, it will bring more from her.

If she changes the topic of your interest, back off and show less response to it. Don't cold shoulder her or you'll brush her off and it'll be a botched mission.

Stick with simple things...open with a sincere response. If she makes eye contact, you smile. If she smiles back, then walk over and talk to her. If she breaks contact, don't waste your time and then she doesn't exist unless she comes to you.

If a woman makes the effort to directly come up to you, that's when you sincerely answer her comment and keep her on point of what you want in your responses...Don't come out and tell her you want to screw her. Just keep it simple and evolve the responses according to your interest. This will keep her off center and very interested on a primal level, curious and turned on dueto the mystery of what you have to offer her in being a challenge.

Keep it simple, you are a man, for christ sake, act like it. Confidence is not ignoring women, it is being just fine with or without them...They don't want a momma's boy.

Hope that helps.

Sorry for the double posts

someone should just write an ebook about this and sell

dude your myspace profile pic is terrible.

I think you are probably not giving off a good first impression

Cut your hair, style it and put on some nice clothes

Originally Posted by premiumsource

As a college ball player and a good looking guy I've never heard a problem with women and am able to pull any girl so take my advice. I don't ever use pick up lines cuz they are corny and it's obvious you are trying to impress them.

Instead do this:

Girls love attention right? Well, don't give it to them. Try to kind of ignore them and don't pay too much attention to them. Still talk to them and be polite but make it seem like your aren't too interested. This works everytime because now they will try to get you since they've lost their confidence. This works the best with hotter girls because they expect guys to be all over them. So this way they'll come to you instead of you coming to them.

Now the next step is once you are alone to completely open up and charm them to the moon and back. Now this is completely up to you which way you want to do this, you can do this simply by just being yourself(I highly recommend it) or pull it Wedding Crashers style, I don't give a shit, it should work.

I've been pulling that move for years now and haven't failed yet. And probably won't since I have a girl of my dreams now so I won't be trying anymore.

Good luck!

probably as good an answer as you are going to get. and aside from the slightly conceited statement about being a good looking guy, which you do not have to be
particularly handsome, i'm going to assume you don't look like a goon, dress neatly, have good hygeine/breath, etc.

you also need to be confident. if you are shy-acting or fumble for words, most women will be turned off because they perceive that as weakness. a woman
is attracted to a man that can handle himself around others.

be confident, but not arrogant. no one likes an overbearing asshole. also, do not kiss her ass for approval. no one respects an ass-kisser.

as a matter of fact there was one girl i worked with who was cute as all get out and i purposely acted like I kind of found her annoying. she couldn't
do enough to try to get my attention and approval. always stopping by my desk to say "hi". trust me, it works.


most girls at 20 just want to have fun and get laid just like you. don't come on strong or serious. just be easy and let it fllow. if they have an interest, BELIEVE ME they will let you know.

key: if you are talking to a girl and she touches you during the conversation, you are in. women do not touch men they do not like.

Originally Posted by small_town_boy

Haha. Someone has been studying PUA stuff

Not really... just stuff I've learned from all my successes, failures and everything in between. You can read all that PUA shit till your eyes bleed but at the end of the day getting out there will do so much more.

Its good to learn a base from books, other people and all that but you'll learn a ton more just getting out there. Learn from all the rejections and failures and eventually it will start clicking.

I Posted A Thread That Might Help You Out,

http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...dean-gelo.html

Ok i just finished watching David Deangelo Inner game series (about 14hours) EVERYONE on this forum should watch. The tools you gain will stay with you for the rest of your life. If you suffer, have depression, low in confidence, etc watch this ASAP. After watching it i take PRIDE IN FAILING..(thats how good the material really is) Also i would like to thank the person who recommended David D material in this thread, you are the bomb.

I'd suggest Carlos Xuma's stuff ( he has a free podcast called Dating Dynamics ) and also a guy called Rion Williams ( Has also a podcast wich is free ).
I Subscribe to both, and i highly recommend it.

Guys, here is the KING of inner game:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2whOq...eature=related
Type in google "inner game magazine" and subscribe to his list. He sends some great stuff.

DeAngelo products are good and are on torrent websites. I recommend his "Advanced Series" Edition 1 and 2.

go to bitseduce.com or theplace.bz, both good sites for torrents too!

Anyone tried out the tyler stuff RSD i think its called

Tyler's Real Social Dynamics is very good. You can find the whole seminar in torrents. Highly recommended, it mostly focuses on inner game.

Get an account @ the*place.bz they have a ton of torrents helping you out on every aspect of picking up and pleasing women... I officially know what a gspot is now... now I just have to find one.

Originally Posted by small_town_boy

Tyler's Real Social Dynamics is very good. You can find the whole seminar in torrents. Highly recommended, it mostly focuses on inner game.

Nice, out of all the david deangelo stuff i reckon the inner game series with DR Paul was the best. So i cant wait to get my hands on Tyler's Real Social Dynamics

It's all a numbers game, like anything else. Never waste your time. What I mean is this...if you set your sites on one girl in patrticular, and she kinda blows you off, move on quickly, never work for it or chase it, only nice guys do that, and they just end up being friends with women, they don't get laid.

I had a simple system when I was young....a long time ago, and it still works to this day even though I'm 42, and I still get banged. That's because women never change, their nature is the same whether their 20 or 30 or older.

Never put all your eggs in one basket, never put all your effort into one woman, always be working on a few at a time, making sure to keep YOUR options open. Don't worry about her, worry about yourself, I can assure you she is only worried about herself. Working on more than one at a time causes womento pay more attention to you, they want all of your attention, and they eventually give up the goods to get it if they have to. The numbers game is a tried and true system.

And when you look at it for what it is it's really hard to get your feelings hurt, if one blows you off you still have other eggs in your basket and it really doesn't bother you, this really get's to a woman, and may cause her to come around for another go.

If there's one thing I know that pisses a woman off, or makes her want you more, it's when you don't need her, or her attention. And if you have others you're working on that's exactly the position you'll be in. You make your own destiny with woman.

Always keep yourself in a position where you have choices when it comes to women....always, and you will be a master at the "boy girl game".

The "boy girl game" never changes, it's been the same since the dawn of man and will always be about numbers period.

use your army training and be the "love" sergeant

Focus on the process, not the event. The event will come when you plan on the process.

Just hit up Diabolik or one of his buddies for ebooks on how to pick up women; "Mystery Methods" and things like that!

Lawd Geezus!! This thread has tickled me something Terrible!

Some of you have given the BEST advice --- you need to create an ebook!

Others... And yawl asses ain't slick... are obviously trying to give this young man
a complex and/or ruin his dating future. Shame on you!

Anyhow, best of luck to you Cory