My Approach With Women Sucks... - Page 3

**digital** · #91 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by biglevel

oh my fuckin god you didn't!! hahahahahahahah.. dude that's some of the funniest but most honest shit.. i couldn't even finish reading the rest of the thread after reading that!

you got my vote.. be the big swingin dick at the party and you're in! but you gotta have a smooth and slick approach to it.. character is everything with women..

you gotta have 1 of 3 things to get women..

1.) a lot of cash!
2.) sense of humor (make her laugh)
3.) a big dick

as long as you can show one of those 3, you're in dude.. fortunately for me i have all 3, but that's besides the point.
...
lol what an interesting thread!

Right.
And then you wake up right?

nessa2shoes · #92 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:46 AM

OMG, you guys crack me up!

The best advice you will ever get from this thread is....

LISTEN TO THE GIRLS!

The girls who have given you advice on this thread are the only ones worth considering. After all, it's GIRLS you're trying to win over, so listen to what they want, not what Nevarc (no offence!) and others THINK they want!

Honestly, all us girls want is someone with confidence (but not a dickhead who thinks he's better than he is), who is smart, can dress neatly and with a small nod to fashion, is clean and respectful.

Forget the Ferrari! Girls HATE a wanker. Never try to be something you're not. That doesn't even work when trying to get girls into bed...

Be sincere....be respectful....appreciate their company, and you're in like Flynn!

nessa2shoes · #93 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:00 AM

So you say, Diabolik, but girls can smell bullshit a mile off and it DOESN'T turn them on!

But hey, I'm gonna be nice to you because you're going to share that template you've been working on, right?

**coreygeer** · #94 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:27 AM

No girls can not smell bullshit a mile off..

Why do you think so many of them are complaining "I don't understand guys"

Nice guys do finish dead fucking last because I was the nice guy. Sure girls will call you sweet and talk to you but it's only because most girls don't have it in them to just say "ok I don't like you so hit the road". Plus they'll end up using you only when they need advice and nothing else.. believe me.. nice gets you nowhere.

Girls my age aren't looking for a "nice" guy. They want someone they look good with and the king of the mountain.. maybe when they're older they'll want someone they can raise a family with but nice guys don't get pussy when they're young.

nessa2shoes · #95 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:58 AM

Name checking????

nessa2shoes · #96 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by coreygeer

Girls my age aren't looking for a "nice" guy. They want someone they look good with and the king of the mountain.. .

Well, I can see this thread is no place for a girl, so GOOD LUCK to you Corey....take that chip off your shoulder and you might just do ok.....

newmanhia · #97 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:13 AM

Don't worry about what women think, that is what losers do. All women crave attention, so just ignore them.
You have better things to do, like earn lots of money. That will get you all the women you want.

Madeezy · #98 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:17 AM

Geez Man...Forget asll the crap advice in here.

This is the answer:

Do some more Black hat, get some more Dollars then fuck off to Thialand for three weeks Holiday stop off in BK have agood time (Wear A Condom) then go buy one and bring her home!

Deals Done. The fast way.

Oh one more last important thing.
Always remember...Women are ok, but hey you cant beat the real thing! lol

**AmazinAzn** · #99 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Diabolik

Anyways, here's the thing - I practice what I preach, I used to teach guys the art of pickup for a well known company. You may have seen it on VH1. So I kinda know what I'm talking about because I've taken guys who are tired of listening to women steering them in the wrong direction and turned them around in the course of 3 days. They go on to a whole new world filled with their choice in women and they no longer have to settle for whatever comes along.

So everything I say on this subject is PROVEN. There's no need to challenge me or my advice.

No fucking way. I was thinking of that show the whole time I've been reading this thread.

**coreygeer** · #**100** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Madeezy

Geez Man...Forget asll the crap advice in here.

This is the answer:

Do some more Black hat, get some more Dollars then fuck off to Thialand for three weeks Holiday stop off in BK have agood time (Wear A Condom) then go buy one and bring her home!

Deals Done. The fast way.

Oh one more last important thing.
Always remember...Women are ok, but hey you cant beat the real thing! lol

Bring one home? I'm not looking for some pick up wife from another country.. hell I'm 20.

I think the women in here posting keep forgetting that I'm 20 years old and I doubt any girl around my age ring is wanting to settle down and if they were.. they're kinda creepy.

As for people coming in here only to post that the advice is crap.. gtfo.. this long thread of information could be written into an e-book and it's all true. Girls want someone they can show off to their friends and if you are the baddest sob at the place then who wouldn't want you? I've noticed and learned a lot from this thread and just being around women the past 5 days and I've got 3 days to go, so hopefully I can step up the game a notch and just jump in and play the field.

Don't think just do!

**AmazinAzn** · #**101** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 08:14 AM

The easiest way to get laid is to go to the club, find some chick rolling on tabs, and 5 minutes later you'll end up fucking.

**metalan1** · #**102** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 08:57 AM

Nessa,

Girls can try to be logical all they want - they can SAY they need someone to talk to or who appreciates them, blah blah blah..

HOWEVER, that is what they say LOGICALLY.

Girls pick guys via emotion and feelings. If a guy can make a girl feel an uncontrollable urge to want to fuck them, and honestly at some points you do not need to talk much, the girl will every single time pick that dude over the dude who listens.

It really is a science, and is an amazing one at that. Listen to Diabolik he knows his shit, as well as Nevarc.

**AgentZero** · #**103** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 09:13 AM

Anyone recommend David DeAngelo and his material?

ugorrogu · #**104** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 03:55 PM

http://www.themysterymethod.com/0/bo...lets-handbook/

This is a good book to get you familiar how PUAs do it.

taal · #**105** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 04:05 PM

I'm not sure how much money you have, but take a bootcamp with either realsocialdynamics.com or mysterymethod.com. I personally know guys from both. The bootcamp is totally worth it. In fact, if you have the money, want to be a badass with women, and don't take one, I'd say that you were a dumbass. I'm serious too.

If you're in the boston area, a cheaper alternative is practicalpickup.com (and, actually, ironically, better quality) - I'm good friends with one of the instructors there.

You should probably buy this too (unless you can find it elsewhere =p ): http://www.blueprintdecoded.com/

It will fuck up your head - it's over 20 hours long.

PM me if you have any more questions.

Madeezy · #**106** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 04:08 PM

Diabolic:
Yes I read the whole thread.... Geez Diabolic get a sense of humor before you CHIME IN will you!

And where and how the hell did you read "children and ladyboys" into my post? Never mind I think would rather not ask right now considering I am slightly offended by your post.

entity · #**107** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:32 PM

Btw why are Eben Pagan's (=David DeAngelo) products banned from BHW? Is he a member or sg like that?

silverlady · #**108** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 09:13 PM

I think a good pickup line would be " Excuse me, but would the keys of my Ferrari fit in your handbag?"

Silverlady

elliotps932 · #**109** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 09:16 PM

Hey Corey, you have two problems:

1. Your hair. (get a new haircut!)
2. All women want is for them to be happy (very selfish I know...) So just make them feel happy, even if it means not being straight forward. (being spontaneous is a bonus too!)

**Essential Clix** · #**110** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by entity

Btw why are Eben Pagan's (=David DeAngelo) products banned from BHW? Is he a member or sg like that?

Eben likes to dish out C&D notices like they're going out of style. It's just too much of a hassle for us to allow it to be shared here.

entity · #**111** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 11:13 PM

Diabolik: You seem to be a pro in this field, are you a pickup artist yourself, or a mentor kind of guy?

edit: lol you partially answered my question before I posted it here.

You're definitely a psychic.

amir · #**112** (**permalink**) 08-07-2008, 02:49 AM

This is the best thread in the entire BHW!
imho.

**coreygeer** · #**113** (**permalink**) 08-07-2008, 04:44 AM

What's wrong with my hair cut now..? Check out my new pics for August 08.

Day #6
Well, I came alone this time and I found an old friend of mine and we sat and talked on the bench and his chick friend who has a b/f that's out of town came to talk to us and the entire time I just kept flirting with her and throwing perverted lines out towards her and she told me I looked like a player.

So when my friend left and she left, she came back 10 minutes later and asked where my friend had gone. Then she asked me to walk around with her and we talked for a bit but sadly.. I didn't get to hit it because she had stuff she had to do. I'll see her tomorrow though I'm sure of it..

Plus that girl with the annoying obsessive dude attached to her side was there again.. of course with Zach the nat as I call him.. I only saw her one time without him the entire day and that's when I got a wave at least out of her but her and her mom were leaving.

Pretty boring day though overall but we still got two days left and we'll see how shit turns out.

**AgentZero** · #**114** (**permalink**) 08-07-2008, 09:55 AM

Number one rule "Dont give a fuk what other people thing" Program this into your head! This boost your confidence and in turn makes you more adaptable to women

**AgentZero** · #**115** (**permalink**) 08-07-2008, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by chini

Number one rule "Dont give a fuk what other people thing" Program this into your head! This boost your confidence and in turn makes you more adaptable to women

Sorry i meant "Dont give a fuk what other people think"
My bad

swede · #**116** (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 04:14 AM

My favorite line... Do you spit, swallow or duck? Get's the big girls giggling.

cellk · #**117** (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 04:32 AM

hard to read women in my experience

**coreygeer** · #**118** (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 05:46 AM

Day #7:
Tomorrow's the last day.. then I'll be moving my hunt somewhere else.. Idk where yet.

So that girl that has a b/f out of town, (the one I was perverted to) and works all the time kept hitting on me and walked around with me today. She kept denying that she likes me smiling/laughing the whole time and kept saying I needed to find a girl because she's not attracted to me. I know the real reason.

She wants me to find someone before she starts liking me a lot, then again I think she already does. Well we ran into a couple of her friends one of them was really hot but I payed no attention to her and kinda lead the group of them as we were walking around. We split off later to go see some shitty metal band (me and the engaged girl that is). Well she keep bugging me hitting me/flirting trying to get me to admit I liked her but I just kept her coming and kept denying it.

Well, I guess one of her hot friends said I was hot.. and this was girl was amazing.. so when Kelly (The engaged girl) had to leave to go do something for her parents I started walking around with her hot friend I caught up with.. she was flirty with me too and I figured I had this stuff down and it was in the bag.. well Kelly called me and wanted to talk to me I guess, so I told her hot friend I'd catch up with her later.

Well, we texted her friend to see what she thought of me, and supposedly she texted back saying I was ugly and didn't like me. Personally.. I think it was her chubby friend because she liked me too and it was through her phone, but that's just me.

That's my day.. pretty boring but that's it.

niallt · #**119** (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 09:25 AM

Download some of David DeAngelo's or Neil Strauss's stuff. Some of it is crap and pretty unusable in reality (especially for a non-American environment). There are some nuggets in there about confidence and attitude, though, that will pay off for you.

**enovator** · #**120** (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 09:41 AM

I read a book by a sex expert that most of the women DO NOT like big penis, because big penis hurt them.

entity · #**121** (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by enovator

I read a book by a sex expert that most of the women DO NOT like big penis, because big penis hurt them.

I think it depends on the woman, whether she likes freaking huge cocks or average cocks. Btw the whole thing depends on the technique, if the guy's technique is bad, than it doesn't really matter how big his cock is.

**coreygeer** · #**122** (**permalink**) 08-09-2008, 04:57 AM

Welp..
Last Day:

That engaged girl pretty much ditched me and was only using me to hang out with someone. The girl that said I was ugly the day before apparently just hated the engaged girl and we hung out for a while, and the entire fucking day all she did was text and get numbers from different dudes.. and she was trying to make me her bitch by making me get stuff for her and that wasn't working out so I left.

I walked around with a few friends towards the end of fair when they got there, but the only girl I met was some home schooled girl running one of the fair booths. She seems more nice than she does easy but I'll get to know her, since she's technically the only lead I got the entire fair.

I guess now all I got is Myspace or something like that. lol well that's my 7 day reality show.

**lazysurfer** · #**123** (**permalink**) 08-09-2008, 05:07 AM

It's because you work at KFC and you smell like burnt chicken grease.

**coreygeer** · #**124** (**permalink**) 08-09-2008, 05:28 AM

I do shower.. so no, I don't smell like KFC.

entity · #**125** (**permalink**) 08-09-2008, 08:35 AM

Don't give up mate, it maybe a dry season now, but it can change soon.

**AgentZero** · #**126** (**permalink**) 08-10-2008, 06:28 AM

I just watched Meeting girls in bars and Clubs by DavidDeAnegelo. Its certainly on the ball when it comes to meeting chicks. I totally recommend it, or before watching that get his series called The inner Game videos then eventuate on his other video series

BHapprentice33 · #**127** (**permalink**) 08-10-2008, 08:12 AM

Become a Alpha Male that's the only way

warak · #**128** (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 10:36 AM

Great Advice so far, I know it has really helped me. I am far from being a playa lol.

warak · #**129** (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 06:46 PM

I dont see why Corey has so many problems? I mean he is still young at 20 years old. I mean I am sure for some people getting women while being a teen or early 20s is easy but I am sure some men dont get much women till later on ( a small amount of course). I think good advice is to go to new places or maybe travel a little so you can meet new people and then you might easily find a women for yourself. It just sounds like where you are or where you hang out isn't the best location to look around lol.

**coreygeer** · #**130** (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Diabolik

Don't forget your hand and porn. Better get used to it because you have way too many problems for us to solve here.

But I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I was confident, I wasn't dressed like a bum, I was having a good time, making everyone laugh and I was just myself I wasn't trying to be pretend to be someone else, I wasn't being the "nice" guy.

In High School we were always bankrupt and poor so I had no money for brand designer clothes and I know a good number of people from high school who won't talk to me because of it, but times have changed and other than that.. I honestly have no idea what went wrong or what I did wrong.

jayzee · #**131** (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 05:56 AM

if you listen to a woman you will get lost with womens, they are fucking complicated (no offense but its a fact) so when they give an advice they will give it mixed with their life experience and their currently emotional state (womens change their emotional state every 3 days) so please dont listen to womens

also there is something else that hasnt been said on this thread, ENERGY

womens get atracted by your energy, if you wonder how is it posible that some guys take the girl to bed in 20 minutes and some guys doesnt get laid in months ts because of the energy, you dont need to be rich, handsome, well dressed, tall, sensitive or any crap you may think, you just need that one thing

its not posible that a guy comes saying that he is confident when he is really not and he just haves an idea he heard from another guy

you need to vibrate that, and yes, womens can smell shit a mile away, maybe the claim the dont understand the guys or maybe they suffer for them, but if they dont like what you are on the first second they wouldnt change their mind in their whole life, and on the other hand if they like you on the first second they wouldnt change their mind in their whole life thats a fact because its what you are on the inside what atracts the women

so if anyone wants to change their luck with womens they need to change what they are.... think about it for a second the guys that have "luck" with womens always have luck... its very funny but there are no midle numbers, you sleep with dozens of girls or you just sleep with less than 20 in your whole life (and 20 its a big number for some guys.. sometimes out of their reach)

and think about it for a second, if you can take 10 girls to bed surely you can take 50 and if you can take 50 to bed you can set your own limit

so, you can read experiences, try tricks and do a lot of things but for some time focus and whats not solved inside of you if you stil feel that your clothes are going to make a diference with women then you are not going the right way...and think about it for a second, if you have that shit inside of you you will carry it everywere you go and guess what? womens have a "loosers radar" and its fucking tuned

I have conciously tested it and weared the most awfull shorts, shoes without socks and a $10 shirt and they dont give a fuck they gladly hang with you I am not saying that you should dress like this but you are the one that is atractive not what you wear

And if you are wondering how to get a woman to bed there is a fucking simple answer "make her feel wished". sounds simple but its not, if you really "make her" feel wished you will have her beging to have sex. like smity said "you are the prize" when you see an atractive woman and she shows some interest in you what hapens? you go fucking nuts and will do exaclty what she says just to have the chance to be with her cus u like her... well its the same on the other hand just change the pappers "make them play your game"

The confidence comes from the inside its not something that you learn its something that you live, that you are.

I forgot something if you are desperated for sex, sex wont happen lot of guys can confirm that I think, one thing is to be horny and another thing is to be "desperated"

**metalan1** · #**132** (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by coreygeer

But I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I was confident, I wasn't dressed like a bum, I was having a good time, making everyone laugh and I was just myself I wasn't trying to be pretend to be someone else, I wasn't being the "nice" guy.

In High School we were always bankrupt and poor so I had no money for brand designer clothes and I know a good number of people from high school who won't talk to me because of it, but times have changed and other than that.. I honestly have no idea what went wrong or what I did wrong.

Number one, you are not "the man". You have zero confidence in getting girls. You can be dressed like a 5 dollar hooker and still get girls.

You have zero killer instinct and honestly girls just step all over you. You have to realize that girls do not care about looks, they care about alpha male status and you are not anywhere close according to your notes I have read.

It has nothing to do with clothes and has everything to do with how you act. Sure clothes and shit help, you can peacock and what not, but I'm sure you look and dress like everyone else.

You are normal, and if you are normal and dress and act normal when you do not have outstanding looks, you will get girls that are 150+ and that suck at life. That is even if you get those.

Number one, act like God's gift to the earth, do not be to cocky, but just know you are. To cocky is a turn off and never be an asshole.

Never ever be scared, and never care what a girl thinks of you, and also say the first fucking thing that comes to your mind with authority.

NEVER CARE.

The confidence will ooze off of you, and then you can be "nice" while being a cocky sob. Be cocky/funny/nice - always know you are the shit. Girls can absolutely sense this. It is an innate feeling to get girls and will become one if you practice correctly.

**AgentZero** · #**133** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 08:24 AM

I also started watching David Deangelo's Inner game serious, everyone here should serious watch that shit, its really great

Flyboy · #**134** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 09:57 AM

This is a thread I'd love to post in, too bad I didn't see it till now (don't hang out in the lounge often)

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I guess you could call me a PUA but I don't consider myself that, its just that I can get pretty much any lucky single (lately been having a thing for girls with bfs) woman I approach. Depends on the situation of course!

I'm a good looking guy (maybe too good looking) and I have all the fucking confidence in the world to go approach any woman; not because I'm good looking, simply because I really don't give a flying turd if I get rejected or not.

Most of the time, girls won't even notice that I'm flirting with them until they fall for me (which doesn't take very long). I first analyze the girl in the first couple of minutes I talk to and see what type of girl she is.

If she's a slut, I don't even have to say shit, she'll just be ready to fuck.

If she's a nice kind of girl, I'll bust her balls a little then simply talk to her with a little more ball busting and maybe ONE OR TWO compliments and that's about it.

If she's a spoiled brat (love those), I will bust her balls like fucking shit, specially if she tries to get cocky with me, boy oh boy do I love putting them where they belong with the rest of normal fucking humans. With these kind of girls you just have to make sure you SHOW THEM that you really don't give a fuck if her daddy owns a Fortune 500 company and she lives in beverly hills and has the latest Audi. Show her you don't really give a fuck and she'll be much easier to deal with.

I'd keep on going with the different types of girls and how to act but its 5:52AM, I'm dead tired and frankly, still a bit tipsy.

Anyways, I'm always the guy that my friends come and ask for advice when wanting to date a chick or simply pick one up if they can't do it by themselves so if you got any specific questions, don't hesitate to shoot me a PM and we'll chat.

TO CLOSE, I'll just say this: Be CONFIDENT, be YOURSELF.

PS: To the original poster, coreygeer: After checking your pics and your About Me, I'd say first of all, try to change the hair a bit bro, I remember I had that haircut till I was about 7. Also, try to look more confident, when I looked at your face in the pics, you looked like the typical guy who's too afraid to talk to the hot blonde cheerleader in high school (no offense at all) Try to have a more confident look in your face and not that shy boy kind of face.

**small_town_boy** · #**135** (**permalink**) 08-18-2008, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by smitty5168

Here are some good things that have landed me over 300 women in my short lifetime.

Well really the first thing is be ridiculously good looking, but if you don't have that going for you these should help.

1. Don't be a needy bitch... man up.

2. Don't be a slob.

3. Be the center of attention but not in an obnoxious way.

4. Never break eye contact with a girl first.

5. For god sakes take control of the situation.

6. Act like you have a million different options even if you don't.

7. Don't have a mustache.

8. Don't laugh at your own jokes. If you laugh at your own jokes and she doesn't it shows you are a total toolbag and insecure because you were trying to fuel others laughter with your own.

9. I always like to approach girls and ask them what the cheesiest lines they've heard in their life are. Sounds stupid but it breaks the ice. Then after they tell me I always throw out a couple really corny ones that get em laughing. Usually they have a sexual overtone to them to show em I'm not afraid to let that cat out of the bag quickly.

10. Be consistent. Girls are constantly testing you to see if you are inconsistent.

11. Never be sorry. This sounds harsh, but don't apologize for being a man who lives his life the way he wants. Girls will respect you for not taking shit.

12. Along with 11, don't take shit. If a girl doesn't act right, let her know that doesn't fly with you. She will likely test you after that, but stand your ground. I'm telling you, she will appreciate you for it.

13. You are the prize, now start acting like it. Girls are the ones who should be fighting over you, not the other way around. Stop putting the girl up on this mantle like she is some goddess.

14. Depending on the type of girl, be immature in a mature way. All the things that were tits in 4th grade are tits again. I recently re-introduced the pen15 club at a bar last week and girls were eating it up. Its just a fun thing to break the ice. Once you get a girl laughing a feeling comfortable with you, your in.

15. Realize you will probably be rejected tons of times in your lifetime, but who gives a shit you'll probably never see that chick again in your life.

16. If a girl calls you, act like you are busy even if you are just sitting on your ass watching TV and eating potato chips (which you shouldn't be doing in the first place). Girls don't like boring guys, if you have the appearance of being busy thats a good thing. I always like to say, "Yah maybe we can hang out later on when I'm done with the stuff I'm working on." Haha, my GF has kinda caught on to that one and calls me out every once in a while.

17. Body language pretty much tells a girl if you have a shred of confidence or not. Work on your posture. Get the Alexander Method, it works wonders. A strong dominant posture says a ton about your confidence levels even if your inner self doesn't reflect it.

All in all... you don't have to have a ton of money or be good looking. Sure that stuff helps, but girls are looking for a real man that will lead them. One that has a plan and doesn't break that plan for anyone. Take control, lead her, and be the boss and she will love you.

I'm sure I missed some stuff but that'll give you a general guideline.

P.S. For gods sake stop eating foods that encourage production of estrogen in your body. I'm telling you that men are becoming more and more of complete wussys everyday and that is a big part of it. I'm not saying go take some HGH shots or something stupid, but foods can have a real affect on your success in that area.

Haha. Someone has been studying PUA stuff