I feel like I stumbled onto a goldmine. I just read all 3 pages and feel like my game isn't as good as it could be.
I feel like I stumbled onto a goldmine. I just read all 3 pages and feel like my game isn't as good as it could be.
Corey: Just as Nevarc said, you have to BELIEVE that you don't fucking care of those bitches. Btw it's a good practice to tease hot girls instead of telling all kinds of compliments to them.


This is a kick ass post.
Who needs an e-book when they can just read the advice taken up on this post.
Yes that is my problem. I'm an asshole to just about everyone accept for women. I have to show that I don't care about these women and I often hesitate to talk to them because I wonder usually "hrmm will she just blow me off and make me look like an idiot?" Just got to get in the mind set.
Then stop being an asshole because that's not attractive either. It shows low self esteem. If you are a leader of men, then you control the women. So befriend the men, be the leader, and control the women. Seriously, who wants to hang with an asshole? Not me, but I get laid.
one of the best things that impress women is good sense of humor.


Day #5:
I'll start from the beginning. So while I was walking around I saw this emo/goth looking girl (nice body pretty cute), and the second she noticed me I went over and talked to her. She looked depressed and pissed at the same time and in my head was "now THIS is a goldmine!"
So we talked for a while ventured off fair grounds and got a little flirty and she wanted me to come to her dorm tonight at the local college. She was only at the fair because of some social program they make exchange students take, and she's got two boyfriends from two different counties so I'm thinking "she must be easy". Well, she wanted me to call her at 9:00 and I call and no answer.. I figure "no biggie". I tried a couple of other times and at 11:00 she answered and said "It wouldn't let me turn my phone on but i'm going to bed now so we'll talk later".
... Ok then.. So then I see the girl that used to like me pushing her kid in a stroller. I talked to her for a while and she was getting kinda flirty then she out of nowhere became angry at her boyfriend for something he did.. not sure what and she was being a bitch to everyone at that point so I left.. not dealing with that.
Other than that nothing but shady looks and then as I was leaving the fair.. some snotty looking girl walking with her friend walks past me and says "do you have a fucking staring problem god"
So I turned around and said "What did you say.. do you have a fucking problem?"
I was already pissed at this point before she even ran her mouth.. and I'm quite sure I was never even staring at her.. so we argued for a few seconds and I left..
That's the whole day.
Go get that coke whore!
OMG, you guys crack me up!
The best advice you will ever get from this thread is....
LISTEN TO THE GIRLS!
The girls who have given you advice on this thread are the only ones worth considering. After all, it's GIRLS you're trying to win over, so listen to what they want, not what Nevarc (no offence!) and others THINK they want!
Honestly, all us girls want is someone with confidence (but not a dickhead who thinks he's better than he is), who is smart, can dress neatly and with a small nod to fashion, is clean and respectful.
Forget the Ferrari! Girls HATE a wanker. Never try to be something you're not. That doesn't even work when trying to get girls into bed...
Be sincere....be respectful....appreciate their company, and you're in like Flynn!![]()
So you say, Diabolik, but girls can smell bullshit a mile off and it DOESN'T turn them on!
But hey, I'm gonna be nice to you because you're going to share that template you've been working on, right?![]()


No girls can not smell bullshit a mile off..
Why do you think so many of them are complaining "I don't understand guys"
Nice guys do finish dead fucking last because I was the nice guy. Sure girls will call you sweet and talk to you but it's only because most girls don't have it in them to just say "ok I don't like you so hit the road". Plus they'll end up using you only when they need advice and nothing else.. believe me.. nice gets you nowhere.
Girls my age aren't looking for a "nice" guy. They want someone they look good with and the king of the mountain.. maybe when they're older they'll want someone they can raise a family with but nice guys don't get pussy when they're young.
Name checking????![]()
Yeah, you directed your comment at me by name. That's what name checking is.
Anyways, here's the thing - I practice what I preach, I used to teach guys the art of pickup for a well known company. You may have seen it on VH1. So I kinda know what I'm talking about because I've taken guys who are tired of listening to women steering them in the wrong direction and turned them around in the course of 3 days. They go on to a whole new world filled with their choice in women and they no longer have to settle for whatever comes along.
So everything I say on this subject is PROVEN. There's no need to challenge me or my advice.

Don't worry about what women think, that is what losers do. All women crave attention, so just ignore them.
You have better things to do, like earn lots of money. That will get you all the women you want.
Geez Man...Forget asll the crap advice in here.
This is the answer:
Do some more Black hat, get some more Dollars then fuck off to Thialand for three weeks Holiday stop off in BK have agood time (Wear A Condom) then go buy one and bring her home!
Deals Done. The fast way.
Oh one more last important thing.
Always remember...Women are ok, but hey you cant beat the real thing! lol


Bring one home? I'm not looking for some pick up wife from another country.. hell I'm 20.
I think the women in here posting keep forgetting that I'm 20 years old and I doubt any girl around my age ring is wanting to settle down and if they were.. they're kinda creepy.
As for people coming in here only to post that the advice is crap.. gtfo.. this long thread of information could be written into an e-book and it's all true. Girls want someone they can show off to their friends and if you are the baddest sob at the place then who wouldn't want you? I've noticed and learned a lot from this thread and just being around women the past 5 days and I've got 3 days to go, so hopefully I can step up the game a notch and just jump in and play the field.
Don't think just do!
The easiest way to get laid is to go to the club, find some chick rolling on tabs, and 5 minutes later you'll end up fucking.


Nessa,
Girls can try to be logical all they want - they can SAY they need someone to talk to or who appreciates them, blah blah blah..
HOWEVER, that is what they say LOGICALLY.
Girls pick guys via emotion and feelings. If a guy can make a girl feel an uncontrollable urge to want to fuck them, and honestly at some points you do not need to talk much, the girl will every single time pick that dude over the dude who listens.
It really is a science, and is an amazing one at that. Listen to Diabolik he knows his shit, as well as Nevarc.
Anyone recommend David DeAngelo and his material?
No use going off half cocked. Don't jump in there with bad info. You should start with the newbie challenge.
Use the "Universal Opener"
Q: "What is the 'Universal Opener'?"
A: "Hi."
The basic newbie mission is to go out, with intent, and look women in the eye and say, “Hi.” While there are several specific newbie missions recommended, the very act of saying hi to a strange woman can be the biggest hurdle a new guy can face...until he realizes that beautiful women are people FIRST, beautiful second. Hence, the newbie mission is about dispelling fears as much as it is about building skills.
Convey Personality
Don't confuse "personality" to mean goofiness or acting eccentric. Conveying personality means portraying yourself as someone who is entertaining, confident, and at ease in his environment, someone who can stand out on his own rather than depending on external factors such as clothes, choice of friends, venue, gimmicks, etc. But before portraying that, you must first make a woman totally fascinated by you. This can be done in your initial approach, with the type of opener you choose or the initial things you say or ask.Think about what most guys say to a woman when they first approach them and ask yourself "Is this something she's heard 100 times already?" It may be OK if you plan to simply fluff talk with her first but ask yourself if you can be better than that and say something unexpected, something she isn't likely to have ever heard before. Generally, this might actually be what you really want to say to her since it will at least come across as honest and sincere.
Note: I've successfully opened girls by saying, "I like salad."
Follow The 3 Second Rule
The 3S Rule is basically a guideline for making a decisive move on a female, as soon as is practicable, and without hesitation. Hesitation is usually a sign of weakness, indecision, and lack of confidence. Since confidence is something that almost all women desire in, and find attractive about men, the rule is meant to serve as a principle of moving quickly to show strength, confidence and intent, and therefore attractiveness... Almost all chumps will sit and watch a girl, wondering if they should approach, and eventually talking themselves out of making said approach. You will not hesitate.
One other thing. This may seem contrary to the spirit of the 3S rule, but it is nonetheless a field-proven tenet: 3 seconds is only a guideline. Sometimes it takes more than three ticks to get to a girl, or to get in a position to do something that would require the rule to be in effect. So, it's really a precept of approaches to do something ASAP, or risk losing stature in the eyes of some hottie.
Close the deal as soon as possible, either get a phone number or take her on an "instant date" meaning go hang out in another venue immediately. Phone numbers suck but at least it's a lead to follow.
If you call her, do not ask her out on a date. Dating is from the 1950's. You simply invite her along to do something cool with you that you were already planning to do...you're just inviting her along. Either way, you don't care if she comes or not, you're still going to have your fun with or without her.
Those are just some basics to get you started.
coreygeer (08-06-2008)
http://www.themysterymethod.com/0/bo...lets-handbook/
This is a good book to get you familiar how PUAs do it.
I'm not sure how much money you have, but take a bootcamp with either realsocialdynamics.com or mysterymethod.com. I personally know guys from both. The bootcamp is totally worth it. In fact, if you have the money, want to be a badass with women, and don't take one, I'd say that you were a dumbass. I'm serious too.
If you're in the boston area, a cheaper alternative is practicalpickup.com (and, actually, ironically, better quality) - I'm good friends with one of the instructors there.
You should probably buy this too (unless you can find it elsewhere =p ): http://www.blueprintdecoded.com/
It will fuck up your head - it's over 20 hours long.
PM me if you have any more questions.
Diabolic:
Yes I read the whole thread.... Geez Diabolic get a sense of humor before you CHIME IN will you!
And where and how the hell did you read "children and ladyboys" into my post? Never mind I think would rather not ask right now considering I am slightly offended by your post.
Btw why are Eben Pagan's (=David DeAngelo) products banned from BHW? Is he a member or sg like that?![]()
Hey Corey, you have two problems:
1. Your hair. (get a new haircut!)
2. All women want is for them to be happy (very selfish I know...) So just make them feel happy, even if it means not being straight forward. (being spontaneous is a bonus too!)
Diabolik: You seem to be a pro in this field, are you a pickup artist yourself, or a mentor kind of guy?
edit: lol you partially answered my question before I posted it here.You're definitely a psychic.
Last edited by entity; 08-06-2008 at 10:19 PM.
This is the best thread in the entire BHW!
imho.


What's wrong with my hair cut now..? Check out my new pics for August 08.
Day #6
Well, I came alone this time and I found an old friend of mine and we sat and talked on the bench and his chick friend who has a b/f that's out of town came to talk to us and the entire time I just kept flirting with her and throwing perverted lines out towards her and she told me I looked like a player.
So when my friend left and she left, she came back 10 minutes later and asked where my friend had gone. Then she asked me to walk around with her and we talked for a bit but sadly.. I didn't get to hit it because she had stuff she had to do. I'll see her tomorrow though I'm sure of it..
Plus that girl with the annoying obsessive dude attached to her side was there again.. of course with Zach the nat as I call him.. I only saw her one time without him the entire day and that's when I got a wave at least out of her but her and her mom were leaving.
Pretty boring day though overall but we still got two days left and we'll see how shit turns out.
Number one rule "Dont give a fuk what other people thing" Program this into your head! This boost your confidence and in turn makes you more adaptable to women
Dude, you're hopeless. Don't flirt with a girl unless she earns the right. She must indicate interest in you beforehand. And flirting has nothing to do with being perverted. If you has any sort of chance with her, this is what killed the deal.
Rule: When a girl says she has a boyfriend that lives out of town - it's a lie.
Rule: When a girl tells you she has other stuff to do - it's a lie. If she wanted to "let you hit it", it would have happened.
What you did wrong is you went sexual way too early. You can't make it all about sex...there has to be at least the illusion of something more. If you go sexual too early, a wall goes up and she knows she can't be alone with you because it might lead to sex.
Girls need to feel like "it just happened" without her planning for it. If a girl plans for sex, then it makes her easily labeled as a slut within her social circle. She needs to be able to tell her friend she was just hanging out with you and one thing led to another...NOT, "Well, I wanted to blow this guy so I went to his house and sucked his cock...and I swallowed every drop."
See what I'm saying?
You need to learn about screening and qualifying, this is how you'll avoid shooting yourself in the foot so much.
Fuck dude, the point I'm making is that when a girl is attracted, she'll make the first move. You need to learn how to make her attracted. You can even tell a girl you're gay and if she's attracted to you, she'll still have sex with you. It's easier to get her alone if she thinks it's not all about sex.
That's not the best advice. If you're a chode and everyone knows it, that's not going to help the situation at all.
It's better to be confident in your competence than confident in nothing in particular.
Care what other people think until you become socially skilled, then you can throw out the rules because you'll be more congruent in your confidence by then. Social engineering is not about throwing caution to the wind.
My favorite line... Do you spit, swallow or duck? Get's the big girls giggling.
hard to read women in my experience


Day #7:
Tomorrow's the last day.. then I'll be moving my hunt somewhere else.. Idk where yet.
So that girl that has a b/f out of town, (the one I was perverted to) and works all the time kept hitting on me and walked around with me today. She kept denying that she likes me smiling/laughing the whole time and kept saying I needed to find a girl because she's not attracted to me. I know the real reason.
She wants me to find someone before she starts liking me a lot, then again I think she already does. Well we ran into a couple of her friends one of them was really hot but I payed no attention to her and kinda lead the group of them as we were walking around. We split off later to go see some shitty metal band (me and the engaged girl that is). Well she keep bugging me hitting me/flirting trying to get me to admit I liked her but I just kept her coming and kept denying it.
Well, I guess one of her hot friends said I was hot.. and this was girl was amazing.. so when Kelly (The engaged girl) had to leave to go do something for her parents I started walking around with her hot friend I caught up with.. she was flirty with me too and I figured I had this stuff down and it was in the bag.. well Kelly called me and wanted to talk to me I guess, so I told her hot friend I'd catch up with her later.
Well, we texted her friend to see what she thought of me, and supposedly she texted back saying I was ugly and didn't like me. Personally.. I think it was her chubby friend because she liked me too and it was through her phone, but that's just me.
That's my day.. pretty boring but that's it.
Download some of David DeAngelo's or Neil Strauss's stuff. Some of it is crap and pretty unusable in reality (especially for a non-American environment). There are some nuggets in there about confidence and attitude, though, that will pay off for you.
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