Hey buddy.... i got something for ya. Had personal success with it :-)
Well to ...
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Hey buddy.... i got something for ya. Had personal success with it :-)
Well to be honest i never had really trouble with dating ... but this course (I only read the newsletter and free stuff they provided) i had lots of success with ... used it 4 years ago. Had more than 8 girls in that summer and the last one i dated i am still together with :-)
hxxp://double*yourdating.c0m/
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Damn Smitty, I wish I would known that shit before I became such a pus%$, maybe it's not too late.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Well since I'm practically married I guess I can give up some of my amazing pickup lines.
You're ugly and that fascinates me.
Does this smell like chloroform to you?
Hey your ass looks great with that necklace.
If I asked you to come home with me, would your answer be the same as it is to this question?
For a fat girl you sure don't sweat that much.
You know how some men buy really expensive cars to make up for certain, well, shortages? Well, I don't even own a car.
You look like the type of girl that makes a lot of bad decisions.
-
The Following User Says Thank You to applebutton For This Useful Post:
silentthunder (02-16-2010)
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
jazz99
Damn Smitty, I wish I would known that shit before I became such a pus%$, maybe it's not too late.
Anyone can change... just depends how bad they desire that change and how much pain they are willing to endure to get it.
On a side note. IMO the biggest "fake it till you make it" tip I have when it comes to girls is learning good body language. Once you learn to control your body and how to speak to girls without actually saying anything it really doesn't matter what comes out of your mouth. It can be hard to fake solid body language but it can be done while you get the rest of your ish in line.
Most people don't sit up straight or walk with their shoulders back and their head up, these two small adjustments alone will project a whole new you. People will look at you very differently. I mean thats really just the start but its a very good thing to practice. Strengthen up your lower back and abs and you will start to naturally sit up straighter.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
A conversation starter should be a compliment or noticing something you have in common
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
BTW dude you look like a serial killer. Change your haircut
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
r*s*d*nation*.com but only when you are truly ready to take the red pill.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Hey dude,
This probably won't help you out right now, since the fair is going on and you don't want to be sitting in front of your computer reading all night/day, but I uploaded the D*avid De*Angelo stuff for you over in the member's download section.
Here's the link to the download thread:
http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...tml#post192440
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
RandomStuff
Hey dude,
This probably won't help you out right now, since the fair is going on and you don't want to be sitting in front of your computer reading all night/day, but I uploaded the D*avid De*Angelo stuff for you over in the member's download section.
Here's the link to the download thread:
http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...tml#post192440
Sorry man, seems this is on the "do not share list". Never shared anything here before, so didn't even know we had one. Someone posted in the thread saying they work with those guys and it's bad mojo to share it.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Don't listen to anyone but me. Trust me, I use to be the man (not anymore, I live with my girl now and get very little ass on the side nowadays). The two easiest techniques are the bulk approach and lowering your standards.
I've never had self-esteem issues and have had pussy since elementary school. If those are your issues than you might need more than a little advice. The bulk approach and lowering your standards means you can get ass any time you want. The only thing is, like money on the internet, you have to work for it.
Edit: Smitty mentioned eye contact. That and a good, firm hand shake are the two most powerful moves you will learn in life. Always and I mean always maintain eye contact with a person you are talking to. That should actually be common sense. In any kind of business, whether it's pussy or more money, eye contact is very important. The hand shake should always be firm whether it's with a man or a woman. These are both measures of trust.
Last edited by MaestroDelWeb; 08-02-2008 at 02:02 AM.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Know that your the prize and she needs to work to have it. If you don't feel like your the prize, then you need to do things that make you love yourself more. You'll never be able to love another if you can't love yourself. Live in the moment and let go of how you "used to be". That's not the person you are NOW. You are what you make yourself.
Banter and tease her with an irresistible smile. Practice your smile in the mirror. Crooked smiles are fake and girls know this. Tell her frankly how sexy her picture looks. Be ready to change the conversation if something makes her uncomfortable. Build up sexual tension. Touch her as much as possible while staying casual. When sitting next to her, lightly run the the backs of your fingernails up her arm. Back massages are good. When you stop the massage and you know she was diggin it, wait for her to say how great it was or something then say " but I didn't finish yet, you have to lay out for the second half". Full body massages are great for letting her know your not afraid to touch what she has. Make it sensual with assertive, smooth movements. The muscles on either sides of her tailbone carries the most stress from the day. She'll dig it. Don't be afraid to tell her how great her ass looks from up close. If shes having fun, have some of your own fun and play with her ass a little. Don't come off like a fondling perv. Just have some fun and enjoy giving her a taste of the pleasure you have waiting for her :]
You know how some men buy really expensive cars to make up for certain, well, shortages? Well, I don't even own a car.
.
Killer line
Last edited by SpectroMX5; 08-02-2008 at 03:56 AM.
High Quality Custom Graphic & Web Designer. www.TheWebRockstar.com [PM me]
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
I just now read all of the responses. Let's review today.
Day #1:
I was in the 4H Building - A big nice building with AC since it was burning hot, and some country sweet looking girl was in here. I just happened to notice her and we made eye contact but nothing big, she went to the restroom, came back out and we made eye contact again and she smiled. Then she walked into another section of the building and came back out in like 15 seconds and we started talking.
Come to find out, the girl is a cocaine whore and a whore period.. We walked around for a little bit then she found one of her many ex's she talked about and started walking with him.. here's the highlights of this catch.. 9 months in jail at age 15 for burglary.. does cocaine and weed and x on occasion and steals things... sounds like a killer catch.. so yeah, she said "Catch ya later" but I didn't bother looking for her again later.
That was probably the only actual success I had today and I don't call that success, lol.
Also,
Some 13 year old girl kept trying to talk to me and hit on me...
And some older girl just walking down the mid-way just singled me out and said "Um.. don't look at my little sister she's too young for you pervert", so that started an argument between us since I had never met the chick.
I saw and said hey to some girls from work but other than that.. that's day 1.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
catspurley
Man, just finished reading Smitty's post...
Hell yea, that's the Man's Bible right there.
Smack that on your bedroom wall and memorize it!
couldn't agree more!!
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Hey buddy, why not make a blog about your process? Im sure a lot of people would be interested. Maybe you could make it like Monty, a 30 days challenge to get as many pussies as you can, or whatever.
Heck you could earn some money too from affiliate marketing 
Just an idea
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Superb post Smitty. Intelligence also goes a long way.
Good tip Wlingle with the "touchy feely".
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Day #2:
Notta.
That's about all I can post.. just some High School Drama that found my way.
Some whore was starting rumors about me and now this girl I like from work won't talk to me. One of my good friends won't talk to me anymore for reasons unknown and I was getting avoided a lot today.. that's about it..
So far.. not so good.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Um, dude...you're going to have to stop referring to them all as whores. You've got a mental block that's already holding you back.
Also, when a lot of drama seems to go on around you and the the common factor is YOU...that should give you a hint as to where the trouble lies.
Don't think that you'll magically change everyones' opinion of you at your high school no matter what you learn. Doesn't work like that. If you're the chode of your school, you're going to have to game outside of your social circle.

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
Day #2:
Notta.
That's about all I can post.. just some High School Drama that found my way.
Some whore was starting rumors about me and now this girl I like from work won't talk to me. One of my good friends won't talk to me anymore for reasons unknown and I was getting avoided a lot today.. that's about it..
So far.. not so good.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
Day #2:
Notta.
That's about all I can post.. just some High School Drama that found my way.
Some whore was starting rumors about me and now this girl I like from work won't talk to me. One of my good friends won't talk to me anymore for reasons unknown and I was getting avoided a lot today.. that's about it..
So far.. not so good.
Maybe it's because you tried to hook up with the town crack whore last night.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
Essential Clix
Maybe it's because you tried to hook up with the town crack whore last night.
lol nah she just talked to me for a little while then she ran off with her ex.
The "whore" I'm referring to.. her name is Heidi Tuttle and believe me.. she's filthy and gets around. She's got the tattoos, talks tough and starts fights, looks like she hasn't bathed in about a month. I'm not assuming or making up the fact she gets around.. I mean she really gets around and has some creatures crawling around in there.
I don't refer to all of them as whores.. I just call them as I see them.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Two posts in a row you were calling two different girls whores...I'm just stating facts here. Seems like a mantra to you.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Just try this pick-up line......
"Hello, my name is Corey....Remember that....You'll be screaming it later."
If that doesn't work, then try....
"Hello, could you help me find my lost puppy? I think it just ran into that cheap motel over there."
Sometimes, when I'm alone......I google myself.
Wanna make FAST MONEY? Get paid WEEKLY $25-$100 per FREE sign-up promoting adult cams.
Sign-up here
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
looks like it's not your approach with women that needs work....
you need change the bait to attract different fish
unless this is the type of girl you prefer

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
I just now read all of the responses. Let's review today.
Day #1:
I was in the 4H Building - A big nice building with AC since it was burning hot, and some country sweet looking girl was in here. I just happened to notice her and we made eye contact but nothing big, she went to the restroom, came back out and we made eye contact again and she smiled. Then she walked into another section of the building and came back out in like 15 seconds and we started talking.
Come to find out, the girl is a cocaine whore and a whore period.. We walked around for a little bit then she found one of her many ex's she talked about and started walking with him.. here's the highlights of this catch.. 9 months in jail at age 15 for burglary.. does cocaine and weed and x on occasion and steals things... sounds like a killer catch.. so yeah, she said "Catch ya later" but I didn't bother looking for her again later.
That was probably the only actual success I had today and I don't call that success, lol.
Also,
Some 13 year old girl kept trying to talk to me and hit on me...
And some older girl just walking down the mid-way just singled me out and said "Um.. don't look at my little sister she's too young for you pervert", so that started an argument between us since I had never met the chick.
I saw and said hey to some girls from work but other than that.. that's day 1.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
"Hello, could you help me find my lost puppy? I think it just ran into that cheap motel over there."
Thanks - I needed a laugh at this time of the morning.
Zeprokon
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
I guess I did call the cocaine girl a whore.
lol alright.. she's very "open minded" about who she does things with. The other girl I called a whore sleeps around for money and cigarettes. I met a few bad apples but oh well.
I'm noticing a trend and pattern in where some of these people hang out.
After about 6 PM, for some reason everyone gets into big groups of people they know and they stand there for the rest of the day chatting. A lot of trashy people hang out in the middle on the midway isle and near the left isle. We'll call this the Red zone.. Must stay away from the red zone at night.
When I got home I guess some girl that I didn't recognize but she's on my MSN was sad because I didn't talk to her when she saw me. She said she's too shy to talk to someone first.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
It looks like you're searching for a wife. If the chicks are whores, then fuck them, that's what whores are for. Your standards are too high.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Its all about how you carry yourself.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Take control, lead her, and be the boss and she will love you.
...or, she'll think you too controlling. This is a fine line, don't be too "bossy" or you risk looking like a jerk who thinks the world revolves around him. Speaking as a woman I can say that the majority of us don't find that attractive.
There's confidence and leadership skills, and then there's pushy and controlling.
I think someone upthread mentioned ignoring the girl your interested in....well, if some guy did that to me I'd be turned off real quick and just assume he's not interested.
Don't play games. Be genuine and try not to over think things. Don't be one of those guys that says one thing, but means something else. If you make it too difficult we're just going to move on, regardless of how nice your car is or how good looking you may be.
-
The Following User Says Thank You to Orangecat For This Useful Post:
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
You may also want to re-consider trying to pick up chicks at the county fair... Is Urbana a relatively small town? Any larger towns close by?
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
Diabolik
Two posts in a row you were calling two different girls whores...I'm just stating facts here. Seems like a mantra to you.
Not to appear insensitive to juvenile & adolescent kiddie issues--I'm not--I'm quite sensitive to the adolescents under my care, but this particular kiddie OP is kind of ridiculous.
Hate to say it, but I agree with Diabolik. Disrespect isn't attractive. And Smitty's advice was right on as well.
Best,
Sine
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
go for guys instead.. you can share clothes and shades.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
county fair? that's frickin awesome!!
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
137 women in 14 years of sex, and I come to find out that Smitty has more than doubled me, this is the real devastation in the thread, and I won't fucking stand for it.
Of the 137, maybe 25 were 9's or 10's most were 8's and the rest were lucky to get a 7 in a dark room.
What I've learned in my years has all been said in this thread, no ebook, no pick up artist course or forum is ever going to teach you more.
1. It is in fact a numbers game.
2. You're the fucking boss in the room, I don't give a fuck of Brad Pitt is standing next to you, you carry yourself like the women there are lucky you showed up.
As far as the coke whore, so what? in all honesty if that was me a few years ago I would have had her bent over the toilet in one of the bathrooms within 20 minutes standing in a puddle of piss, thats not a joke thats not a brag, thats just fact, you made eye contact twice because you were interested, that meant it was time to make a move.
It's called life experiences, you have a life, so experience it. I dont care who you are as a person, every man wants to fuck a coke whore in a shitty place, granted its not as cool as it is in the movies but its still cool and people love to hear the stories.
If you really want a full Rolodex the easy way than your in luck because you already know how to use it, its called the internet, welcome.
Fix that myspace profile up, start browsing, and come up with some clever shit to say about each girls profile you think is cute. This takes a matter of seconds when you get used to it. It could be about something she said, it could be where she lives (preferably close to you until your rich enough to travel) etc.
Make sure you have a ton of friends that look cool, not fucking Jenna Jameson and Scooby Doo, but real people, cute chicks, cool fucking guys like me and Smitt
etc. Girls on myspace look at three things when they get a new message from a new guy:
1. The little picture next to the message, so make it a good one.
Provided she thinks that pic is acceptable enough to click through:
2. Your profile: should be funny, charismatic, enjoyable to read
If you accomplished that
3. Your friends as mentioned above. If a girl sees your popular she assumes you have social value, aka something about you thats worth talking to you.
And now you will receive many return emails and open doors to much more.
Also sites like Aff, Fling etc are gold mines for good times.
I'm by no means a player by any standard, I simply didnt go home alone like most guys because I followed things that have been said in this thread.
If you do start making piles of cash online, forget about, its non stop. I used to fly to vegas by myself just because I knew there were always people to party with and you are GUARANTEED to score hot girls from around the world if you have some game, I dont care if your slightly goofy looking, rail skinny, overweight, bald whatever.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
Essential Clix
You may also want to re-consider trying to pick up chicks at the county fair... Is Urbana a relatively small town? Any larger towns close by?
Yes Urbana is considered a small town. There's really no large towns or cities nearby.. the closest one near here is Springfield but it's nothing near a metropolitan and it's not a "nice" place to be.. to put it simple.
Day #3:
I just hung out with someone from work, umm.. that girl that wouldn't talk to me because of another girl starting rumors felt bad and called me. I saw the girl I planned on hanging out with today but she kinda blew me off and her obsessive psycho ex was standing right by her the whole time.
She's one of those nice girls who's got too big a heart to tell the dude to piss off. If you think I'm making it up : http://www.myspace.com/zachwatson
Him and Samantha ( the girl i was supposed to meet ) broke up quite a while ago and he just can't let it go.
Other than that.. nothing really, just a boring day of all walking around. Let's see how tomorrow goes.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Let me guess...you're the second guy to post BANNED material in this thread? Did you not read the "Do Not Share" list?
Do not share David DeAngelo or Double Your Dating products.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
lets be honest women can smell your confidence(and thats waht atracts them the most), so this is really simple:
act like you have them in the cup of your hand and dont be fully interested in them, act like you dont give a shit about them and they will come to you, you need personality and need to show them that you are a true man (not a little kid living with their parents) its not a coincidende that 40 years old guys have really good luck with womens they are looking for a man who is not going to ask for their permision to take them to bed and make them have a good time 
Dont come asking silly questions that show your insecurity like "do you come here often" its better to go straight to the point and make them feel wished but please do it with style, you can literaly ask them if they want to sleep with you and have a postive answer if you use the right words
(womens love when you know how to do this)
and please erase that letters in your front head that say "i havent fucked in months" they hate desperated guys, like i said they need a man who knows how to make them have a good time and not only in bed... just think like them if they are really atractive they know that lot of guys will come after them so what they ask is "why should I pick you from the rest of the guys?" you have to answer that without looking like a kid that is trying to impress them
its not that hard if you look for the right womens, they want sex as much as us they only like to play little games to test you before
Last edited by jayzee; 08-04-2008 at 03:17 PM.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
I feel like I'm part of a fucking reality show lol
Day #4:
Welp, it was a pretty dull day. I did run into the cocaine girl again and we said "hey" then she kinda straight up said "if you're looking for a girl around here, it won't happen because you're not attractive enough to have a girl" lol.. I'm dead serious.. I quote word for word.
Either A: She's got a chip on her shoulder for being a Lohan follower or B: I'm that ugly.
I thought I wasn't bad looking but apparently not good enough for a cocaine addict.
lol
I traded looks with a few girls but they just looked the other way or walked away. Maybe I was dressed up a little too stylish lol. I usually wait until I get a smile out of them before I go in for the kill.
Well that's it for the day.. and I bugged the people at the religious tent today since they keep bugging me every day "would you like a pamphlet? Do you know if you're going to heaven?"
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
You didn't wear that suit to the county fair, did you?
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Why is that bad? I brought the weapon too..
lol no no. It was just a nice $80 blue and white shirt I got from germany and blue jeans. Kind of a brand designer shirt but I got it for extremely cheap on an Air Force base.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
I'd listen to Nevarc, Smitty, diabolik...
Basically the only thing you need to know is that - You do not care. You just do not care. Remember this. Never care about a girl or what a girl says. Never play their game, make them play your game. Make them buy you shots, make them stand behind you while you sit and they try to talk to you.
Like Nevarc, and Smitty have said -- You are the boss, the rest are lucky you are there. Remember this mind set. Also, never be serious ever with a girl, ever. Never worry about a date, never ever worry about getting a date or a number, just let it happen, you have to be a bad sob though. Trust me they will ask you for your number, at the very least if you have to ask, you will KNOW you are getting it.
Just be in control, Smittys post is excellent, however being in control does not mean that you are mean, do not be mean, you will tip it too far over the edge and they will just ignore you.
Anyway, good luck man.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
I feel like I'm part of a fucking reality show lol
Day #4:
Welp, it was a pretty dull day. I did run into the cocaine girl again and we said "hey" then she kinda straight up said "if you're looking for a girl around here, it won't happen because you're not attractive enough to have a girl" lol.. I'm dead serious.. I quote word for word.
For someone to say that to you out of nowhere makes me think you must have some sort of negative rep. Regardless, if you argue with her or even give it a second thought, you have beta'd yourself. What you should do is reframe the comment and misinterpret her as coming on to you.
"I bet you say that to all the cute guys you have crushes on."
"Nice pickup line...but I'm taken...by ME!"

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
Either A: She's got a chip on her shoulder for being a Lohan follower or B: I'm that ugly.
Looks don't matter

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
I thought I wasn't bad looking but apparently not good enough for a cocaine addict.

lol

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
I traded looks with a few girls but they just looked the other way or walked away. Maybe I was dressed up a little too stylish lol. I usually wait until I get a smile out of them before I go in for the kill.
This is stupid...stop it right away. You go in regardless of them noticing you and making eye contact. Even if they don't make eye contact, they still notice you...they have radar. If you wait more than 3 seconds before approaching, you might as well forget it. At that point you've shown you lack confidence and will creep her out if you do approach. You will be seen as some chode who has to work up his courage to talk to girls. A guy who's used to getting laid and interacting with girls has no fear of them. Act as if.

Originally Posted by
coreygeer
Well that's it for the day.. and I bugged the people at the religious tent today since they keep bugging me every day "would you like a pamphlet? Do you know if you're going to heaven?"
Last edited by Diabolik; 08-05-2008 at 06:13 AM.
-
-
Re: My Approach With Women Sucks...
Im sensing the real issue you are having is that you are not following the single best piece of advice in the thread which his just been highlighted by Metalan "Don't care".
Seems your dressing the part but if mentally your not there, forget it, done deal. "Believe the lie", you cant expect to give off a vibe unless you believe it.
Its like when your not thirsty your surrounded by fucking water, the same way married guys (who dont let themselves look like shit) find themselves getting hit on all the time buy cute chicks.
It is very hard to do, and it takes practice, its also why not every guy can do it. You just have to get women out of your mind and focus on having a great time meeting cool people, if you do that, suddenly youll find women paying attention to you instead.
-
Posting Permissions
- You may not post new threads
- You may not post replies
- You may not post attachments
- You may not edit your posts
-
Forum Rules
Bookmarks