For me it is DatingGold (amateurMatch) i think this is pretty popular with a lot of people. One thing I am building on is World Dating Partners affiliate program/websites. Like some of the guys have said before on here, it is a bit of a slog to begin with, but once your renewals/recurring members start stacking up I really do think it is worth it to put everything into WDP. What does everyone else think?, those who have tried them obviously!!