Girls don't want pussy guys. All weak men (not physically but mentally) don't stand a chance when it comes to women against an alpha male. That is what women are looking for. I don't care about what you look like, girls dig guys that take charge. You will find pretty much every girl likes a guy that leads, not one that is always asking "what do you wanna do."

You don't have to be a prick, but don't be a fucking wussy. Don't agree with everything she says just for the sake of agreeing that is what wussys do. Have a fucking backbone, grow a nut sack and put two balls in there. Big balls.

The day you stop being a complete puss around girls is the day they start respecting you more and hence take a second glance.

The last three girlfriends I've had have all said the same thing. They liked me because I lead them in almost everything we did, sex included (and of course my smashing good looks helped, but thats another story). This isn't a control freak, this is someone who takes charge.

Moral: You don't have to be a jackass, just don't be a pussy. You don't have to treat her like shit (immature girls like that though), just don't aim to constantly please her. Like it was said above, girls are constantly testing you looking for inconsistencies. So if she does something and you back down, but normally you stand tall she will look down on you for it.