I put captcha manually, and no! no one get pissed i do not ADVERTISE or SPAM or you my say it does not seem to the naked eye.
it is NOT like i'm saying "COME SEE MY WEBCAM" , 95% of the time i just answer what they write me normally and put it only in my sigature, but with 400 msgs a day(limit) and now with replying 5,000-7,000 messages a day(found a trck lol) it's a lot of people